*Preliminary note: I am possessed of a warped sense of humor and a sarcasm level which is not always identifiable in print. This post contains neither. *
**Rubystreak **is having a hell of a time right now, as she shared with us, sort of inadvertently, in another thread. She’s sick with the flu, trying to wrap up the school year for her students, helping a friend through a rough time with his custody battles, and made the difficult decision to have her beloved dog put down - except the dog died overnight, so now she’s dealing with the unexpected loss (not to mention the logistical nightmare of dealing with a large deceased animal in her home.) In short, she’s had a really bad week, and to top it all off had one of those threads she thought was going to be a fun pressure valve snark fest that just backfired on her (which Doper hasn’t had THAT happen, I wonder?) I didn’t want to post this in that thread and hijack it, so I’ll start this one.
Rubystreak, we’ve crossed swords in the past, and in the present, and I just want to let you know I really respect you as a Doper and as a woman. We can both be headstrong and sarcastic - which I generally find delightful in both of us. I admire your wit and your strength, your humor and your good advice.
I am so, so sorry about the loss of your dog. I’m a dog lover myself, and I know how crushing that is. I wish you strength and love as you process your loss. I hope your students behave as civilized as possible for the last day of school so your day goes smoothly and you can focus on other things.
So, as irritating as it can be: Here’s huggles for Rubystreak. I’m thinking about ya, hon.
I’m posting this instead of PMing it in the hope that other Dopers want to show their love and support in this difficult time. If you have only snark, take it elsewhere, please.
As well as virtual hugs, I am extending virtual tequila, virtual Godiva truffle ice cream, a virtual shoulder to cry on, and a virtual movie marathon on the couch.
In all seriousness, Ruby, if you need to vent, my email’s in my profile. {{}}
I read that as "Hope things get better prostate, Rubystreak!
That left me confused, and to be frank, scared. Hope things are going well, Miss Streak. We’re here if you need us.
Rubystreak, I just lost one of my furbabies a few weeks ago, so I can feel your pain. Even when it is time for them to go they leave a whoppin’ big hole in our hearts. I am so sorry for your loss.
I hope you feel better soon, both physically and emotionally.
If you need/want to vent, my e-mail is in my profile.
Way too nice, you guys. You’re making me cry. Thanks. My week, even more craptacular than I’ve told you, was just made a little bit better. And I don’t even deserve it.
