Sadly, I lose another cat

Friends, it is with regret that I announce the passing of one of my feline friends: Stripe.

I first introduced Stripe to the SDMB in The Kitten in our Yard thread. I updated the news about him in the Update on our feral kitty thread, somewhat later; and still later in the Update on Stripe, the now pretty much ex-feral kitty thread. In short, Stripe shed his fears of humans and became part of the family, to the point where I reported his attempt to post on the SDMB: I think my cat is a wannabe Doper. Of course, there were many other times when I posted about him, but those, I think, are the standouts.

So you can imagine my shock when I got home after work today, and found Stripe sacked out on the floor. That was nothing unusual; he would often just flop over and doze off. “Come on, big boy, you want a treat?” I asked, petting him. But he felt wrong somehow. Cold. Then I noticed that he wasn’t breathing. And there was a wet spot by his butt, and another one at his mouth.

I grabbed the phone, and called the vet clinic. They were closed, but their service offered an emergency number. Not much good at this point, so I called John, my neighbour, who also happens to be a veterinarian. John knows Stripe quite well, as he looks after my cats when I am out of town.

John came in minutes, and pronounced Stripe dead. His exam indicated that it was most likely a massive heart attack. Given Stripe’s position (looking like he was asleep), John estimated that it happened when Stripe was asleep, and he likely didn’t feel a thing. Further, he estimated the time of death at about three or four hours before I got home–meaning I was at work, had no knowledge of what was happening, and thus could not have done a damn thing to help my little pal. Cold comfort, but comfort nonetheless.

I’m okay, I guess. I’m definitely shaken. Stripe was only seven years old; and while I understand that heart attacks can happen to anybody (or any cat) at any age, I did not expect such to happen to Stripe.

Still, Stripe had a happy life. Certainly a longer one than if he had remained feral. He enjoyed sitting on the windowsill and watching the birds, and he was first in line for kitty treats. He could always find a pool of sunshine for a nap; and in winter when it always seems dark outside, he would substitute the fireplace, and lie in front of the fire. Me in my favourite armchair was always an easy target, and he would climb up and settle onto my lap for a nap. At such times, skritches would eventually produce a ragged purr, almost as if he was reluctant to do so, but couldn’t resist. He was a good cat, and a good friend, and I am going to miss him.

I know that photos are de rigeur on SDMB cat threads. This is one from a few years ago, and this is another. I’m sure I have more recent ones somewhere; I just have to find them.

Friends, please spare a kind thought for Stripe, and if you have cats of your own, make sure that they get their favourite treats and plenty of skritches in his memory.

I am so sorry for your loss.

I had to put one of my kitties , Sleestak, to sleep on Saturday so I totally empathize.

If I were religious I’d bet that Slee and Stripe are on the way to being friends right about now. What the heck, it is a comforting thought. And when losing a friend we can use all the comfort we can get.

So here’s to Stripe and Slee hopefully becoming fast friends somewhere.

Eric

You have my deepest sympathy. I moved out recently (divorce in progress) and i dont have access to my cats at all now. I lost my favorite in January and I still get sad when reminded. I hope you find peace.

I’m sorry for the loss of your friend. Because, after all, our pets are our friends. I don’t have a cat, but I’m familiar with loss, having lost a few dogs myself, and it was always hard. I’ll give my dog, Brewster, some extra snuggles and tummy scratches in memory of Stripe.

So sorry to hear that. I also just lost a cat before her time - a 10-year-old sweetie. It wasn’t totally unexpected as she had been having some strange blockage in her throat off and on, but she died the day after the vet reported that she was doing much better.

They stay forever in our memories. Sometimes I think I can still see her out of the corner of my eye.

My deepest sympathies on the loss of Stripe. I also totally empathize as one of my cats is now 16 and beginning to fail. She weighed only 7 pounds at her heaviest (7 pounds of fury though, if you wanted to put her in her carrier or clip her nails–took two people and those people were not unmarked). She is now somewhat lighter and not as good at flying as she used to be, i.e., sailing through the air and landing on the counter, balancing and then turning around on the very narrow porch rail.

Stripe had a good life with you. And probably a way longer life, short though it was, than he would have as a feral cat. On Stripe’s behalf I will give extra scritches to my furry family members.

Sincerest condolences to you, Spoons. Very sad news. I remember we were talking about how Stripe came to be part of your family just last week.

I’m sure his life in your home was a good one ad that’s the best we can ever hope for for anyone.

Many warm thoughts to you and Stripe.

How sad, Spoons. I’m sorry that Stripe passed away, for you certainly love him and did a terrific job of taking him into you home and into your life.

Hey, that’s so funny! My (late) cat Tabby had a litter and one of her kittens we called Streepje, Dutch for Stripe. Streepje looked exactly like Stripe: greyer and bigger than his mother, and quite light eyes. Stripe’s lookalike Streepje lived a happy life down the road with friends, where he liked to sit in the windowsill and stretch out in sunny spots.

I’m sorry you lost your lovely Stripe, Spoons! Hugs to you.

My heartfelt condolences, Spoons. Cats can fill a very important place in our lives but then leave quite a void when they die. We lost our 21-year-old black cat Sal not that long ago and haven’t replaced him since (although we also have a 3-year-old yellow Lab, Dewey). Having read your earlier threads on Stripe, I know how you loved him. You should be proud of yourself for having given him a much longer and comfortable life than he would likely have had as a feral cat.

I’m so very sorry for your loss. Stripes was very handsome.

Aww so sorry for the loss of both Stripe and Sleestak. It’s so hard to lose a furry friend no matter what age. I like to think of them running and playing all together in a field of sunshine and butterflies.

Four years ago, I had to euthanize my once-feral kitty, Raven. Like Hilarity’s cat, Raven was tiny yet violent. It sounds like Stripe mellowed out far more than ours did and that you were a fortunate human to have him around.

On my best days, I am fairly agnostic. The rest of the time, I am atheist. But there’s a part of me that just knows Raven is curled up on the main hearth in Valhalla, enjoying the spilled mead and the sweaty, brawling men. I know that I will see her again, because otherwise, there’s no justice in the universe. And just as I know that, I know that Stripe will be waiting for you.

I’m so sorry to hear that, Spoons. That would indeed be a shock - a seven year old cat is supposed to be in his getting-into-everything prime.

I’m glad you took him in, and I’m glad that his too-short life was a much more pleasant one because of it.

I’m sorry for your loss. :frowning: It’s never easy, but I know it’s harder when they go before their time.

Stripe was a beautiful boy. I hope you take some comfort knowing that you gave him a great life for the time he was here.

He looks like my deceased kitty Cheshire. RIP Stripe.

As someone who recently took in a feral kitten, I’m doubly saddened at your loss. Remember him with love!

I also got my cats in 2007 and one died in January from kidney failure. Also 7.

I’m sorry and I do understand.

I’m so sorry. We just got two kittens and we have a 13 year old.
Over the past few years we’ve lost several kitties. Some to the ravages of old age, some to the wild outside, but the one that was maybe the hardest was my 4 year old buddy Maxx.
Maxx probably had a brain aneurysm and died very suddenly. Being healthcare providers, hubby and I did CPR for about 20 minutes with no change.
He is buried next to our otherloved ones in a secluded pace in the back yard. Each has a stepping stone that I made. I can’t lose any more kitties, I’ve run out of stones.

Just a follow-up,

John helped me take Stripe’s remains to the vet clinic, which arranged for a private cremation. As a veterinarian, John could speak with Stripe’s regular doctor on a professional level, and bring her up-to-date. She concurred with his diagnosis. I declined an autopsy; John’s findings after his exam were good enough for me.

Stripe’s ashes will be returned to me.

I was in touch with my ex-wife through the past week. We disagreed on much, but never on our cats. She agreed with me, that John’s findings were accurate (she also knows John, and his qualifications). I also arranged for a clay impression of Stripe’s paws, which I will send to her.

My other cats have been a little confused by the loss of their friend–where is he? All seem to be a little out of sorts–heck, I am a little out of sorts–though experience tells me that this will pass, for both my cats and me.

More photos:

Stripe did have his 15 minutes of fame–he was featured in a Cracked Photoplasty on “25 Mind-Blowing Things Science Can’t Explain”: see him here, at number 7.

And here he is with his friend Tigger. That’s Stripe in the foreground and Tigger in the background. They ended up being great friends and were both enjoying a nap at the window, until I interrupted them with the camera.

How did he end up on Cracked?