I think that it’s unfortunate that we’ve seen these irreconcilable differences pop up in our midst. If we turn individual <<<<<decisions into a massive Us vs Them war, all we are going to create are hurt feelings all the way around. As long as Opal is successful in keeping that MB from becoming a “let’s all sit around and curse the SDMB” (and I think she will succeed in that), then I see no reason for us to hurl brickbats after people who leave this MB.>>>
Well said. It’s just sad to see so many people who added so much here, leave.
Yue Han, I’m reminded of something you wrote back in March:
'So here’s a prediction:
There’s going to be some whining
Someone will compare the administration to nazi germany and complain about free speech.
Someone else will bring up how we got the flaming folders changed as proof how bitching gets the admins to change things, thus convincing the admins to never, ever give in on anything again.
Good posters will quit the board as a result of the bad feeling stirred up.
Despised posters will leave the board.
- [care to elaborate on this one??] *
There will be 6 new people whose first post is attacking the board.
** And the admins will not let Melin come back. **
So please, people, show some [ahem] restraint. Stirring up trouble will only drive off more good posters. And having lost Melin, I don’t think we need to lose anymore.’
As a relative ‘newbie’, part of what drew me here was the warmth, and sometimes ** intense heat ** of the discussions. People who show great passions in their arguments are the same who end up throwing down the gauntlet and having to walk away. Saving face? I don’t know, it just seems sad, that the only way to solve a dilemma is to walk away, rather than finding ways to work it out.
The Board goes on, you all are proof of that, and I’m sure it will survive and do quite well.
I just miss them, and I didn’t want Mr. K going or Ursa leaving and not acknowledging they were ** here ** and that now they aren’t anymore. That’s all.
Judy
“Please Disregard the Following.”