In general, I think I’m a notch or two above average.
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Good muscles. not big, but well defined.
Good eyes. blue/grey/green that seem to change colors.
I’m smart, dammit.
I treat women well, just because.
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bad circulation, sometimes I get purplish “bags” under my eyes.
I get depressed.
I slouch.
I’m a smart-ass, dammit.
crooked teeth. I hate the way I smile, it’s goofy, and I don’t show teeth because I don’t like them.
Which usually does whatever the hell it wants to. (Especially since I’m growing it out.)
I have nice hands and fingernails.
My ankles swell all the time. Bleh.
Overall, I kinda like myself, but I hate being this heavy. Which ends up meaning I don’t like the way I look. However, I’m with Medea’s Child and Hama…once I’m with someone in bed, I don’t really give a damn. I feel good and have a DAMN good time.
Yeah, actually, I think I am. I feel good about myself most of the time. I usually feel attactive. Guys have always told me that it’s the mischevious look in my eyes and my friendly smile that gets them. Plus, I’m naturally a terrible flirt. I have to keep myself toned down a dozen notches all of the time, or I get in trouble.
I get the occasional down time because I’ve been having a hard time getting rid of the pregnancy weight, but I really think that it bothers me more than anyone else. And, it will come off.
Since some people got pretty specific, I’ll try too.
I like: my lips. My lower lip is full and pouty, and my lips look great in dark, dark, red lipstick.
I like: my nose. Not too big, not too small.
I like: my feet. Small and cute.
As for the rest of my body…ick.
I hate: my little pot belly. I tell people I’m chornically three months pregnant.
I hate: my hands. I like then cause they are small and delicate but I hate that my nails are brittle and my cuticales are ragged no matter what I do.
I hate: my general body structure. Like Hama, I am short waisted. This does make you look heavy even when you aren’t. I could weigh 98 pounds but I’ll never look willowy.
I hate: my height. I’d love to be at least five foot four.
I hate: my lack of cheekbones and my weak chin. I feel my round, shapeless face contributes to the fact that I look like I’m still a child.
I like the way I look. I get flirted with enough to know that I’m not unattractive. There’s room for improvement, of course, but my gripes are pretty minor, and the changes I’d make about me are all within reach and don’t require surgical intervention.
Nah, not even gonna comment on that one. Too easy.
I’m…okay. Not ugly, not plain, not beautiful; just sorta generically acceptable.
In all honesty I’ve never been very “looks” oriented, for myself or others. Painful shyness combined with extreme height while growing up may account for part of it. Dunno, just sorta mentally opted out of the game early. A lot of the people I find wildly, vividly attractive aren’t in the least “good looking”.
This may be indicate severe mental/emotional imbalance but I don’t have any clear concept of what I look like. I’m often suprised by what I see in the mirror; sometimes favorably, sometimes not but it always seems weirdly disconnected from me.
I don’t think I’m ugly, but I know it takes some work to get myself looking halfway decent.
I just stepped out of the shower, so right now, I look like hell. No makeup, face in the middle of a major pre-menstrual breakout (I’m 33, dammit, why I do still get zits???), and hair up in clips to make it curly (it’s actually naturally curly, but if I don’t help it with mousse & clips, it just gets fuzzy).
But when I dress myself up, I look pretty good, I think.
After years of believing that I was the ugliest human being on the face of the earth (fucking cruel-ass elementary school kids!), and after getting my teeth mostly fixed (they’re still crooked, but I smile a lot to make up for them), and getting contacts and losing weight, I’ve managed to convince myself that I’m not ugly. Sometimes I look in the mirror and think I’m pretty, but most of the time I’m just plain. I don’t have any misconceptions that I’m hot or that I have the physical features guys seek out.
But I’ve reached a point where I believe that it doesn’t matter. And it doesn’t really. My friends love me because of my personality and sense of humor, and that’s what I offer to men. If that’s not enough, than it’s not enough, and I move on (usually, it’s not enough :() I have a great capacity for loving; I will literally give everything I have to a person in need; I am passionate and idealistic to a fault; and I am smart. These matter to me more than my face.
I guess it’s true that when someone tells you something often enough, you start to believe it’s true. So I think that as many times as someone I love tells me I’m beautiful or sexy, I still believe what I was told by my father and those evil goddamn brats when I was a child.
If I didn’t look like this, though, if I didn’t have this face and this body, then I wouldn’t be me, and me is made up of a lot more than appearance. So I’m content to be plain.
I have a large breasts. I love my breasts. I have long, curly red hair. Even when it’s fuzzy and poofy, I still love it. I’m a big girl. At first I hated this, but you know what? I realized that I can get extremely rough in bed and not be hurt. (yes, that’s a good thing) My eyes are green, brown, yellow, hazel, depending on the time of day. My feet are small, my toes are even.
I have no ass. None. My legs meet at a point on the base of my back. I’m a very hairy person. Hairy arms, hairy legs, even a bit of hair on my belly
I think that having my future husband worship me like a Goddess probably helped my self-perception. I still have my moments of doubt. But then I just think of the of the look of desire, no, the need he has on his face when I walk into the room naked…The fact that he won’t let me walk by him without “groping” or kissing me kinda feeds me ego.
Of course, it took two years of hearing “You are the most beautiful woman in the world, and I’m thankful everyday that you’re with me” before I really believed him.
I’m pretty, plain and ugly. Sometimes all three at once.
I have large facial features. / I used to think my nose was bulbous, but I like it now. I like the colour of my eyes (dark bluish grey) My glasses make my eyes look small. I have a nice smile When I smile, I have one or two more chins than I need. I have a lovely big arse. I have a saggy belly. I have nice legs - shapely but not skinny. Unfortunately, my calves aren’t narrow enough to fit in most knee boots.
I don’t think I’m much to look at myself, but some former boyfriends always told me that I was very cute, so who am I to argue. On the other hand, they were in love or wanted me to go to bed with them, so not really a source of unbiased information. More specifically:
I’ve got a perfect ass. A nice ‘bubble-butt’ as people call it. My hairline is receding rapidly. It is also thinning. More on this subject in a later thread. I have nice grey/blue eyes, that can look very sexily (or so I’m told) My nose. I’ve got sort of a fetish for noses, so I know that mine is too big. And the fact that both noses and ears are the only part of the human body that grow throughout your life doesn’t help me get more confident about it. Slim, although I’m about to get a pot belly. Nothing a gym can’t fix though. I’m too pale. And living in the northern part of the UK didn’t help me to get more tanned… But also, this is easily remedied by going to the gym. Hairless for most of my body, sadly this is also beginning to come true for my head (see point 2) Need to tone up the muscles. But see above two comments for that. 26. Nuff said I’m a smoker… Although some people find that sexy too.
That’s about it. Any takers? There’s still room for a boyfriend in my life
I’ve grown into my own body over about the past 10 years, so I think I qualify as attractive now. I’ve also made a real effort at making the most out of what I’ve got.
Attractive features:
Very thick but soft hair. I will never go bald. In fact, I could sell my hair to wig makers.
I’ve worked hard at my physique over the past 10 years or so. My SO tells me I’ve got a terrific body. She particularly loves my round ass and thick shoulders.
I’m intelligent and have a wry, quick sense of humor. I seem to be able to make people at ease the minute I meet them.
I have a personal sense of style. Nothing flashy, but well put together. I appreciate quality in things and buy the best that I can afford. Someone once said that I could play football in a three piece suit and it would never show a wrinkle.
I have a very deep voice.
Things I’d change:
My legs are too short for my upper body. I’m 5’10" tall but only wear a 30" inseam on my pants. When I buy a suit I have to get a 46 Athletic cut jacket and then have the pants completely remade.
I’d like to be about 3 inches taller. My father and brothers are all about 6’3".
I have good muscles, hard and compact. I don’t have defined abs…yet I have attractive hazel eyes I have a noticeable bald spot I have a great ass My dick is the perfect size…not too big, not too small, just right I have some back hair I have hard, muscular thighs I’m a sensational kisser (independently verified from several sources) I have a good complexion and two eyebrows I have a great hairy chest I have good teeth
I’m not gonna list all my good and bad features, but I do have to note gravity has not been kind to my breasts and I could stand to lose 10 pounds. But am I attractive? I think so. Does the rest of the world think I’m attractive? Who cares.
I know I’m no hot mama, but I like the way I look, finally, after the usual high school and young adult crises.
I have soft, fine hair of some indeterminate color of brown/blond/auburn highlights with some white stuff starting to show up in the front. I have green/hazel eyes I like to laugh and feel I put people at ease when I meet them or have to make small talk I’ve got six-pack abs - honest! I’m very fit with good muscle definition - don’t have to lose weight anywhere I look good in my clothes I’m a sexy dancer I smell good I have perky breasts that are just the right size. I don’t bounce too much when I run, but I do bounce some. You know, the “more than a handful’s a waste” type thing.
I picked at my face too much when I went through that teenage acne thing and now I think my pores are too big. I have extremely dry skin on my face (blame genetics) and usually feel like I’m going to blow away in the winter That dry skin is making it easier to see the wrinkles et al. I’m stubborn and opinionated and feel that I turn people off too often; I’m afraid that I sometimes don’t make a very good first impression
But, on the 1-10 scale, I’d give myself a 7 or an 8.
my stomach sticks out too much,it’s supposed to be flat, not curvy
:(I’m short, only 5’1" my nose is too big I have too much fat under my chin zits are bad my butt is too large, its supposed to be tiny. I have fat on the back of my hips that won’t go away My skin is oily my hair is too fine and it oily my lips are too small All the various marks on my arms
what’s good? my eyes, even though they only open half of what normal’s people’s do