Yes, we all agree on a time. Why do we agree on a time? Because, hey, I won’t accept it any other way! Which, of course, is my point in the first place.
Believe me, they know. In fact, about 50% of my friends are just like me! Can you believe we all get along? I know it is hard to wrap your bigoted mind around, but it is true! People can work around such things!
And why the fuck do you suppose we agreed to a time? Hmm? Can you guess who’s idea that was to make time so fucking important? In fact why I am so pissed in the first place?
“What do you mean around one? One thirty? Pick a time!” For example, you say:
Poopy-head! Can you think about this for a second and see why it both doesn’t solve the problem and doesn’t eliminate the double standard? Please.
Why do you suppose we agreed to a time, you fucking inconsiderate piece of shit? Was it… satan? No, no. Was it… weapon threats? No, no. Was it… because you can’t fucking use one ounce of empathy in setting a meeting time by not making it a specific meeting time? “I think he’s got it now!”
Oh, that’s cute! Because you know, people who hold time to be so important really don’t mind that at all, nope. They never say anything like, “Well which one, seven or seven-thirty?” They never pressure for a more exact time, nope, not those sweet innocent babes who don’t impose their standard on anyone else, nope nope…
I may have said some shocking things on this board, I admit it. But this just disgusts me, it really does. I mean, we’re not talking about physical violence, spitting at people, calling someone names all the time, stealing… we’re talking about trying to work together so time isn’t a huge deal. And that is too much for you.
Your love runs real deep, man, real fucking deep.
Yes, I realize you do, that’s my problem. Why do you insist on making explicit meeting times? Why do you suppose they do? Do you think they don’t know they are late all the time? It is almost impossible to avoid referencing time with a looooot of people. That really annoys me (I don’t consider it rude and arrogant because I think they are just making a mistake in judgment). But I’m pointing it out to you: I don’t want to agree on a time in the first place. See what I mean now? As an exercize, when a get together of some sort is going to occur that doesn’t depend on external events (like movie times, for example), try not to set an explicit time. With a lot of people it just isn’t that easy. True, the exact time we meet doesn’t matter… and yet, they require an exact time anyway. Like in Cheesestak’s post above: “If you can’t make 7:00 say 7:30”. You see why this doesn’t solve the problem?