Sex..what's the record?

Factual Questions
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How long?

Anywhere between an 30 seconds and an hour and a half. Depends on what you did before that.

I’ve been asked to hurry up, because my partner is getting sore, and to go slowly, for duration. Depends on the mood, and personal taste.

Three to five minutes of intense headboard banging seems about right, with an indefinate ammount of time before that to get to where you’re ready. If foreplay got you there, then I can see intercourse lasting just a minute or two on average. If intercourse is part of foreplay, or foreplay part of sex, and you start slowly, not just banging away like crazy, then it takes longer.

I can’t imagine wanting to take more than an hour in any one session, for one, I’d be getting fairly tired if I was doing much, and two, I like orgasms. Having to wait three hours for an orgasm doesn’t sounds fun. It’s not over necessarily over when a man has an orgasm. Actually trying to take turns is great, that way the other partner is rested up and can take over the active roll while you recover, etc.

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you poor dears! i’ve known exactly one man my whole life who did quickies. for some bizarre reason even billed himself proudly as ‘speedy gonzales’ (no offense, vince).

the last guy i lived w/, if we didn’t do 1.5 hrs/day 5 days/wk there was seriously something wrong w/ one of us. like major illness or being out of the state.

as for waiting 3 hrs, ever hear of multiple orgasms? as i’ve been able to bring guys to multiple orgasm who said it never ever happened to them before, i am inclined to think it could happen to anyone & maybe you need to find out how. poor babies . . .

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ohh special you ARE special. Please have a talk with my wife!

“I think it speaks to the duality of man sir.”
-Private Joker in Full Metal Jacket

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funny you should mention that . . .

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I did it with a masseur who was so talented he took me there 2x in a row, I mean like 2 minutes apart, even I didn’t know what was happening, til I got there…

There is A LOT to be said for technique.

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Personal record is 4 hours nonstop, but it wasn’t fun by the end. One of the things I don’t like about sex is that it takes so long… I am generally getting sore and tired and the guy is still banging away… the guys I’ve been with all seem to average about an hour (from initial penetration to orgasm)… to me I think 10-15 minutes is a good goal, but it never seems to go that way. This is probably another factor in why I dread sex so much…

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Me, I’m a 30 to 60 minute man. There are ways to make it last longer without either partner getting too tired. I’ve done it and it can be fun. You stop, cuddle, talk, smoke, have a drink, mutual petting and then go back at it. Change positions frequently (that missionary position can get real tiring for both).

Several times I’ve had my girl on top, when we stopped and had a smoke, still coupled. She thought it was fun. We both enjoyed the feeling and it gave us time to rest and extended the experience.

Sure, during rests a man might loose is erection, but he’ll get it back. If he has a bit of a problem doing so, she can help him fit ‘in’ and he’ll ‘rise’ to the occasion in her warmth. Sometimes, in between sets, if she desires, toys can be used to enhance her pleasure.

Sometimes, for a man, if he stops close to climax, and rests, when he finally completes later on, it seems stronger and often the girl will notice this, especially if you have a girl who often climaxes when she feels the ejaculation hit.

But, rests are great if you have all night and your partner enjoys being cuddled and fondled. For a multiorgasmic woman, it’s good because you might bring her to her peak during a rest with a toy or by hand, prolonging the experience for her because a man usually can climax only one or two times, sometimes three. (I’ve heard of the marathon men who climax 4, 5, 6 times and I think they’re fulla shit because the sperm reservoir only holds just so much and each climax drains it. Shots 4, 5, and 6 might be dry fires. By then, the ol’ penis should be pretty sore also.)

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“Well, Handy . Ya gotcher basic Chess Clock, and yer basic Amorous
Couple. The Romeo slaps the clock upon…um…penile insertion, and
slaps it again upon…ejaculation. Hence, a scientifically accurate
measurement of time it took to…last?”

Is this with the guy doing his wife? Or some other test subjects. Hmmm. Reminds me of Playboy for married men, the same centerfold every month.

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Rubbing your dink in there for hours and hours is overrated. Boasting about it just means the guy is an amateur or a kid.

Foreplay is good, it’s the build up. This can typically last 20 minutes. But once I’m inside I want to be done in about 3 minutes. I’m a busy man, I got stuff to do.

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If a guy did something as disgusting as smoking in my bedroom I can guarantee he would be out on his ear and never return.

Anyway, I still say that I don’t like long sex, and not just for the tired factor.

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Teeming Millions: http://fathom.org/teemingmillions
“Meat flaps, yellow!” - DrainBead, naked co-ed Twister chat
O p a l C a t
www.opalcat.com

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I think there’s a lot of misinformation being spread here and on the sexual records web site. A few points related to the discussion above or to the web site:

-The average penis size is not 6.2 or 6.5 inches. It is not clear exactly what it is, but the Kinsey data which is assumed as being accurate (and always quoted) was collected using an honour system, where men were asked to measure themselves privately and their measurements were taken on faith. I have read of two more recent studies that have had proper controls and avoided private measurement. In the first it was determined that the average erect penis size is 5.1 inches in length and 4.9 in circumference. In the second, 5.7 inches in length. Other studies concluded that the world average penis size is about 5.1 inches. I’ll note that Uncle Cecil himself appears to have fumbled this question when he answered it years ago.

-A man needs an average of 3 minutes or so to reach orgasm, ranging up to 5 minutes. That is if no control is applied and if the man is enjoying what is happening, but of course most men do apply control to prolong intercourse and enhance the pleasure of both parties. Those are the stats for the average man.

-The gangbang records by pornstars mentioned were laughable affairs in which masturbating or sucking a penis counted for one count. There were fluffer girls stuffed with antibiotics to get the men hard and nearer orgam. 200+ men were involved and the porn stars probably did have 200+ penises in their vaginas, but I doubt if a single one of those men had a proper sex session lasting, say, 15 minutes each. Note that the women were still completely battered after the ordeal.

-Then there’s Special, who smugly and superciliously mentions that 6-8 hours of sex is not unusual for her. This leads me to question her statements–just try to rub your fingers on the back of your hand for 8 hours and see what happens. The human penis is capable of an unmatched feat of hydraulics (we have no penis bone to induce erection, unlike other mammals) but I seriously doubt that even 0.1 percent of the healthy adult unmodified population could maintain an erection for 8 hours straight–especially not on a regular basis. So how is it “not unusual” for you, Special?

-Multiple male orgasms are no mystery. You can have varying degrees of orgasms, and you can have more than one orgasm. Some men have a fast recovery rate, while others are able to continue sexual intercourse after a full orgasm with proper stimulation. Two full orgasms before rigidity is lost are not unheard of, and it is possible to have any number of partial orgasms (little or no ejaculation) in a session. This also prevents the man from becoming numb and keeps him excited during long sessions.

-Women can’t “receive” indefinitely. That is, most women. The supply of natural lubrication is not unlimited, and the skin and mucous membranes in the genital area get rubbed raw even with lubrication. Assuming that a man and woman have normal-sized genitals, soreness will set in sooner or later and make the experience unpleasant. A woman wth a large vagina, or a man with a small penis, could theoretically have abnormally long intercourse with less damage.

-According to the Durex survey (also based on the honour system) the average copulation time changes by country. The Americans and the Australians were the ones who had sex for the longest periods, reported at about 20 minutes if I remember correctly. Of course, individual performances are dramatically different, but the survey gives you a rough idea of the top average.

-Orgasms vary in intensity. If you have a full mind-numbing orgasm you probably will not want to do anything except enjoy it. If you have a milder orgasm you can remain more functional and even continue to have sex. That goes for men and women.

-In spite of Special’s cute condescending little comments (“you poor babies”), sexual preference varies widely among individuals. Some women require extensive stimulation to come, and so do some men. Some people have difficulties in reaching orgasm; this is a disorder and not a privilege. Some people find stimulation just after an orgasm to be uncomfortable, while others like it. Some women don’t like extended bouts of sex because of soreness or other reasons, and some men find that they go numb and lose their erections after a certain period.

And so on. As Woody Allen said, “everyone lies about sex”.

Abe

IDIOT, n. A member of a large and powerful tribe whose influence in human affairs has always been dominant and controlling.
–Ambrose Bierce

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wait a minute,
“multiple orgasms for males” ??
is that physically possible ?
i suspect perhaps one long one may really be the case, “multiple” suggests orgasm, space, orgasm, pause, orgasm . . . not to put too fine a point on it, but uh, wouldn’t the army run out of soldiers ? that being the case, my reaction would be OWWWWWW!!

“Solos Dios basta”

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Yes, men are capable of multiple orgasms. if you don’t believe me, next time you have sex go on right up to the moment when you feel about to come, and slow down (concentrate and control your breathing as well). You will feel the beginnings of an orgasm, but try to cut the orgasm off without extinguishing it. The result, if done properly, is Great Ongoing Delight. If not done properly, it still feels great. In this way you can “stretch” orgasms as well as have more than one.

Spend a few months doing Kegel exercises, and (with practice) you will eventually acquire enough squeeze control to ejaculate partially, thereby enjoying an orgasm while retaining your erection and some of your semen. The partial ejaculation technique is actually an annoyance if you are using a condom, but it works well freestyle.

You can also practice having more orgasms in one day. Try to have at least two or three every day with endurance exercise such as jogging in between. It helps (though you will find your sperm count somewhat depleted).

Unlike Special would have us believe, Everyone is built differently, and everyone enjoys different pleasures. But I think that most men should be able to have multiple orgasms if they so choose, although I don’t think that all men enjoy the sensation.

Abe

IDIOT, n. A member of a large and powerful tribe whose influence in human affairs has always been dominant and controlling.
–Ambrose Bierce

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oh, abe, baby, yer turnin’ me on.

that said, i agree w/ several of you that the semen well will go dry after maybe the second time in 10 minutes; but that apparently doesn’t make the feeling any less intense. however, if the male orgasms are spaced further apart, there can easily be 1/hr for a man who has practiced restraint (as abe notes!).

why would a guy do that? to please whomever he was with i suppose. i ain’t a guy & can only report what happened as i experienced it from the other side. a more germane issue is whether a guy would want to have multiple orgasms (which i believe abe also mentioned). i have known quite a few men who are so super sensitive after an orgasm that they don’t want to be touched any time soon.

as for the 6-8 timing, sorry, abe, that your facts come out of books rather than out of experience. 0.1% is probably a good number, but that’s still more than a handful of people, no? that many of them don’t know it’s possible doesn’t make it less possible. that i was able to show them it was possible, however, does prove it is so.

i cum hard & in rapid succession for hours. it takes very little friction to make it happen, therefore, less lubrication & both parties can last longer. i’m not saying every session is 6-8 hrs. but only rarely is there one that lasts less than 1.5 hrs; & when time is available, 6+ hrs is not unusual.

also, several men have mentioned in this thread & other recent ones that after they have gone a certain amount of time, their erection just won’t go down & they can’t cum, which happened to my ex whenever he got drunk. but these guys hadn’t said they had used any stimulants to produce the hyperhardon.

as for your denigrating comment that in the porn gangbanging “sucking a penis counted for one count”, i certainly hope you aren’t saying that oral sex doesn’t count. long sessions would die of boredom if it weren’t for changing positions & rooms, adding toys, getting something to drink, whatever.

surely, it shouldn’t be a nightly marathon just for sake of having a marathon; however, when either or both parties know how to make it something to look forward to, the effort can produce an incredible circus of pleasure that you both want to come back to.

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Special, here (spelled out) are the points I wanted to make regarding your posts:

A) the superior airs and condescending attitude you expressed in your posts are annoying and insulting

B) “not unusual” and “very rare” do not mean the same thing, so it’s not a good idea to use them interchangeably. It’s not THAT unusual to have sex for a couple of hours, but it is extremely rare to have sex for 8 hours, for the reasons I have mentioned. Oral sex or masturbation, that’s another story.

My girlfriend and I were trapped by a typhoon in Macau, in an old frotress converted into a hotel, and all we did for three days straight was have sex over and over (weather was dangerously rough outside). That doesn’t mean I’m going to say, “you poor babies… 10 hours a day for three days is not unusual for my woman”.

Special Wrote:
“as for your denigrating comment that in the porn gangbanging “sucking a penis counted for one count”, i certainly hope you aren’t saying that oral sex doesn’t count. long sessions would die of boredom if it weren’t for changing positions & rooms, adding toys, getting something to drink, whatever.”

The original World’s Biggest Gangbang did not allow anything other than a penis inserted into a vagina to count towards the gangbang. If I remember correctly the girl doing that was Anabelle Chong, and she managed a count of 200 or 300 before she had to quit. Successive versions of the World’s Biggest Gangbangs have changed the rules, so that now as long as a man comes, inside or outside the starlet’s vagina, he counts as a fuck. I think you will agree with me that Anabelle Chong, with her apparently lower record, remains a more impressive slut than her successors, who operated under much looser guidelines.

You should try to avoid falling into the trap of feeling superior. You don’t know where I get my information from, and I’m not even sure you understand completely what I am expressing. Poor communication is the leading reason why so many people around the world have sex lives that are substandard; and “exaggerated communications” (to say nothing of the popular media) are the reasons why so many men and women have feelings of insecurity when it comes to their sex lives. Have you been on a message board related to sex topics out there? Most of them are sad spectacles.

Abe

IDIOT, n. A member of a large and powerful tribe whose influence in human affairs has always been dominant and controlling.
–Ambrose Bierce

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i’d say, abe, baby, that you are the one w/ the superior attitude. i can do supercilious, but i haven’t yet. you, otoh, are making a damn good run at it. & yer right, it is annoying & insulting.

my statements are by way of telling people who may not be aware of it that it is very definitely possible to have great sex lasting for a long time on a frequent basis. what i did say was that if i could make multiple orgasms happen for someone for whom it never happened before, i am inclined to think it could happen to anyone. i explained several times how/why that could happen. (to which you did not respond, i might note . . .)

& for someone who lists his occupation as editor, you seem to have a somewhat difficult time with those little quotation thingies. i never used the phrase “very rare” in any statement. what i said was that i have had sex for 6+ hrs on many occasions. i is not rare for me. i would call ‘rare’ once or twice, e.g., what you had during the storm in the frotress (sic).

i did say it was extremely rare to have sex lasting for less than 1.5 hrs when i was living with someone last yr. perhaps that was where you got your misquote. & yer right again, abe: it’s not a good idea to use them interchangeably, which, of course, i did not but you did.

otoh, i would definitely consider oral sex or masterbation are allowable if you’re counting how long some session lasts. never having read the porn rules myself, & not caring what they say, i am not held to a vaginal sex standard.

oh, btw, you should try to avoid falling into the trap of feeling superior. also the one where you attribute statements & attitudes to someone that aren’t there.

& if you read closely, you might also notice that you actually agree w/ practically everything i said. the big difference seems to be that you wanted to say it yourself. oh, well, i’ve heard editors are all frustrated writers.

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Special, you seem intent on missing the point. In addition, it is becoming more and more evident that you don’t really read other people’s posts very carefully, other than looking at your name and the neighbouring words. You bungled your attack on my quotes.

My attitude isn’t particularly superior; I’ve just been writing in a neutral style. Would it that you could do the same. Perhaps you are confusing superciliousness with a neutral writing style used to convey information?

Hm, draw attention to my typo and then proceed to make several elementary errors yourself…

I did not respond because I already stated that multiple male orgasms are a possibility for many men. Not “anyone” though. So I don’t see what you are going on about. As for explaining how/why multiple male orgasms happen, all we have heard from you is what a great teacher and woman you are in the bedroom. I repeat, multiple male orgasms are not a mystery. And women typically can’t teach men to have multiple orgasms, unless the women in question have a good knowledge of anatomy and of how a man controls his body. It’s not abnormal for a man to suddenly learn how to control his body in new ways, spontaneously.

Did I say that you did? Go back and read again. And learn the meaning of the phrase “to use something interchangeably”. By the way, your attempt at insult is feeble.

This is surreal. I am not discussing whether oral sex is sex or not; I was and am explaining how the first “World’s Biggest Gangbang” required its protagonist to have vaginal intercourse with ALL the candidates, thereby proving her endurance (yeah, really something to write home about: “look, mom, I’m the greatest slut in the world!”). The sequels, on the other hand, have a much more lenient approach, and a handjob or blowjob counts as a “fuck”, whereas in the original video a “fuck” was only vaginal intercourse. This point was made in reference to a poster who mentioned the series of videos, and I don’t understand why you keep taking issue with it. Nor do I particularly care whether you consider a blowjob to be a fuck or not.

You have said little, Special. That is, you have said little that might be considered relevant. You ought to read more attentively when you are skimming these messages.

Your second pathetic attempt at insult using the world “editor” is no more successful than the first. I became an editor after I paid my dues as a writer–and I certainly did not fail at either. My profile is old though, because I am now a director in a company. Obviously your problem is not with editors; instead it appears to be with me because I challenged your inane comments (“you poor babies” etc). Either way, I’m not interested.

Abe

IDIOT, n. A member of a large and powerful tribe whose influence in human affairs has always been dominant and controlling.
–Ambrose Bierce

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you’re absolutely, positively right. you’ve convinced me.