OK,I am just curious- bear with me, please, for a slight shift on the actual event.
Imagine, instead of a female reporter just doing her job, that FiredGuy’s buddy yelled that at FiredGuy’s BOSS and boss’s family. The family, in my hypothetical, is also just enjoying a fun afternoon at the game. Buddy sees them and yells “Fuck her right in the pussy!!!” at boss and family, because he thinks it’d be funny. So FiredGuy, instead of saying “oh shit, that’s my boss and his wife and daughter” instead tries to argue that it was “fucking hilarious” and that the boss’s daughter was just lucky not to have a vibrator stuck in her ear.Would you be surprised – or concerned, or dismayed – that FiredGuy lost his job due to his innocent activities while totally off work and not representing the company in any way? He just told the boss’s daughter that she should consider herself lucky that no one stuck a sex toy in her ear. And he does it in a way to garner as much possible attention as possible. Like… I dunno…saying it while on tv?
Fired? Would he be? Should he be? Even though he wasn’t at work, and was not representing the company?
What if it were said to one of the employees he manages? He’s an assistant manager, or rather, he was. They aren’t at work, so it’s ok?
In this case, he didn’t address his comments to his boss and the boss’s wife and daughter, or one of the people he manages. Or not JUST to them. He also addressed god only knows how many other executives, executives families, and customers who might watch that broadcast. And instead of saying, “oh shit, I’m sorry,” he doubled down and said “It’s fucking hilarious!”
So why does he have some greater expectation of privacy when saying that to a reporter. on TV, with cameras rolling, than he would if saying it directly to his employers? This is not a case of poor employee, busted for his innocent off-duty activities. He was looking for attention. Did he think that no one in Toronto might recognize him? That bosses or employees or customers would never ever see it? He might as well have been shouting “Look at me! Look at me!” Well, people looked. More than he expected perhaps, but certainly not more than he should have expected. Again, He got himself – deliberately – on television, in order to act like a complete ass.
I have done a lot of stupid ass shit, and I am grateful that when I was young g and stupid, the ability to put it on YouTube did not yet exist, but damn. Maybe he was drunk, or feeling carefree because he was a game, or not at work, or whatever. He looked for attention,because it was funny, and he got it.
If he hadn’t sought the attention, I might feel bad for him. As it stands? Not even a little bit.