Sexual incompatibility among gay men

[panache45]

@jayjay

So it looks like the leather community is the only place it’s actually used seriously anymore.

And even there, not nearly as much as it used to.

[jayjay]

@panache45

And even there, not nearly as much as it used to.

I think the reason it’s hung on as long as it has in the leather community is the astounding number of different kinks that cluster in that group. If you’re the kind of person who sports a yellow hankie, you definitely don’t want to go home with someone wearing a black and blue one…unless you’re into that, too.

[CeilingWhacks]

Nah, sorry…nonsense. Gay couples are the same as hetero couples. They want the same things in the same varieties. Heck, they may even be BORING.

Myself, I prefer a man to push me around (I’m female). But even that’s ever changing, depending on how pissed off I am at the man.

[Crawlspace]

@Rigamarole

Stuck in the 1950’s, obviously.

You know, come to think of it, I *have *been finding an inordinate number of my thrills on Blueberry Hill.

[newcrasher]

@panache45

In fact the term used to be “twinkie.” A young guy who’s cute and sweet, but lacking in substance.

filled with cream…

I am so ashamed.

[essell]

@panache45

I’m lucky to be in a 19.5-year relationship in which we’re 100% compatible sexually, but before we met it was often difficult to find a relationship-worthy partner.

There’s one specific sexual act that I *must *have, otherwise there’s major frustration. And it was never difficult to find someone to satisfy that one need. But there were many, many other things that I also enjoyed, though they were not necessary. And there were also many things that I did not enjoy but was willing to do for someone I really cared about. And then there were things that I Just. Don’t. Do. Anyone who *needed *one of those things was SOL.

So what this means is that you’ve got your priorities, and hopefully find someone who’s compatible in the important things, and negotiate the rest. Obviously it’s all about communication.

I thnk that just about sums it up for Straight, Gay, and everything in between couples.

[Cat_Whisperer]

Anyone else wondering what the specific act is that panache MUST have? It’s a dismount with a twirl, isn’t it?

[Autolycus]

@featherlou

Anyone else wondering what the specific act is that panache MUST have? It’s a dismount with a twirl, isn’t it?

You read my mind :eek:

[Cat_Whisperer]

You know what they say, dirty minds think alike.

[newcrasher]

@featherlou

You know what they say, dirty minds think alike.

I happen to know he has a certain kink for a particularly depraved act called the Rusty Cleveland Donkey Balloon Knot.

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