Every so often, someone will mention that they think it’s important to have sex with someone before you marry them to find out whether they’re sexually compatible. Now, I’m something of a recovering prude and still fairly strict when it comes to whom I’ll have sex with. As a result, the number of people I’ve had sex with is quite small. On the other hand, there’s been no doubt that we’re sexually compatible. In fact, I’ve enjoyed the daylights out of each gentleman. As a result, I’m curious about just how common sexual incompatibility is. Have I been lucky not to meet someone I love dearly but don’t enjoy sex with? I gather that one element of sexual incompatibility is one participant not doing things the other enjoys and considers necessary, but I suspect there’s more. What are the odds of this happening? 1 in 50? 1 in 10? 50:50? :eek:
There are some things in this world I know little or nothing about. This is one of them. Please, fellow Dopers, help me fight my own ignorance.