shall I ask her out?

In My Humble Opinion
41

I’m out.

Good luck, shaqil.

Shame on anyone who suggested he just ask her out and not work around the nuances of who this guy is and the circumstances that led to them being socially connected and the nature of that connection/proximity.

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42

She’d rather go out for a long walk than stick around to chat and have dinner with him.

So, no. She’s already not interested.

Don’t ask.

43

Well, I’m not going on any dates with you! :smiley:

44

thanks

45

Well shaqil, what are you going to do or have you done? It’s been almost a week since you opened this thread. What have you decided?

46

Hello Omer,
Well she is not around for a while as she has been visiting her family for a few days. I am gonna take things easy and will be just friend with her and will try to go out with her for dinner and would do some other activities together. Lets see how things progress, I fI get any indication that she is also interested in me then I will think to take it further,
do you think its sounds okay to you??

47

Is she staying there as a permanent roommate, or just an extended visit?

48

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Is she staying there as a permanent roommate, or just an extended visit?[/QUOT

Permanent roommate

49

28 and never had a girlfriend?

Yikes…

50

This is part of the reason I dont recommend mixed housing arrangements. The worse thing that could happen is they become a couple, then who pays the rent and all.

51

One word: Alcohol.

52

Nobody thought to point the guy to this thread: Finding Love on Straight Dope?
Sheesh

53

I’m curious about something.

The tone of your writing suggests you were sharing an apt with another male and all of a sudden, there were two females who were sharing the same apt with you.

It’s as if this just happened and you had no part in it. This sounds very strange to me.

Usually, if two males are sharing an apt and two other people want to share it to, they have a discussion about that and each of them gets to say what they want.

You make it sound like you just woke up one day and the two females were there. That sounds very strange. It doesn’t sound real.

How big is the apt? Is it a one bedroom? If so where do the two males sleep and where do the two females sleep?

Something about this setup just doesn’t sound right to me.

54

In that case, do not ask her out or it will get very uncomfortable very fast. Just be a friendly roommate.

55

I think that’s a very good idea. Particularly since you live together and you really don’t want things to get awkward.

Dude, not helping.