On a lighter note (as compared to the rest of my life) I have had a little flirtation at work.
The young man works during the summers, he is entering his 3rd year of college, so he is 20-21. (I am 31) He is painfully shy, and as sweet as honey. He blushes furiously when I talk to him, and he makes a point of stoping by my desk daily. (he doesnt normally socialize at work) we all went to lunch the other day to mark the end of work for him and another student. when it was time to leave, he insisted I join him and another guy to carpool. " You take shotgun Kelli" he beamed at me. We got to the restaurant, he almost knocked me down to open the door for me, and he plunked right down next to me at the table. When we got back to work, again, he trotted ahead to open the door. ( he is so sweet!)
The next day, I was really frazzled - it was a hellish day, getting ready for the weekend, helping a co-worker with a huge project between feilding my own calls - I had a headache. He stopped by and asked how I was. " I have a headache" I grumbled, “and I dont have time to go get a damn drink!” He asked me if I had gone to the water cooler, I told him I had, it was out of cups, and I was just too busy to hunt one down. He excused himself, and I went back to work. A few minutes later, he is back. He had gone and refilled the cup dispenser, and brought me TWO cups of water. He asked if I checked my work email, (he still works Saturdays) and said he would email me to keep in touch.
He is an absolute darling, and I cant help but imagine his young firm blushing (censored - PG-13)
Ahem.
I gave him my card before he left, with my yahoo email and my home number.
I feel like a decrepit old perv. But I cant help but wonder…
Is it a bad thing to consider seducing a willing victim?
GIVE ME A BREAK! 31 years is decripit or old? Of course, being male and 37 I have no problem with 20-21 year old girls.
It’s not really an age thing for me. It’s more of a position in life thing. I went out with a 19 year old girl about 5 years ago. She had run away at 16, did odd jobs and when I dated her had a day job. I have a lot more in common now with her than a 19 year old college sorority girl. Your friend works at your place (actually that is another issue), keeps similar hours. That says something.
An LTR? Cant make that decision about anyone that quickly. But it sound like fun. I’m rooting for the guy. Most girls I date tend to be in the 29-38 range. You are in your prime and you are not as likely to play the silly girl game the girls at his age like to do.
Personally, I would have LOVED to have had sex with a 31 year old when I was 20. She could have shown me so much I did not know.
I completely second this. Older women (which is any woman at least 5 yrs. older than me-kellibelli qualifies by 2 yrs.) know where it’s AT. On the other hand, know what your getting into kelli, and don’t play with his emotions. He may be very sexually inexperienced compared to you. And there’s also the possibility that he’s being nice to you because you remind him of his mother. (Sorry, I had to say it. Don’t be mad.) It might be nice for you to have a fling, but think about the possible emotional fallout for him before you proceed. If he’s really world-wise for his age, I can’t see the harm in it. But I know that no way could I have handled a relationship of this nature with a 31-yr. old woman when I was 21. Hell, I might not be able to handle it NOW.
But uh, despite what I said above kelli, I’d still be willing to try to be Ben to your Mrs. Robinson if you’re ever in the mood!
Someone told a bunch of us WILD women one night that we were going to hell… And our drawers would be soaked with gasoline… Hey, Kelli… I’m from the south. The way they said it, it was funny as hell…
Yeah Girlbysea, what was that??
Also, I remember when I was younger I was usually very nice to older women out of respect. Ocassionally I was sexually attracted to them, but it was something I didn’t allow myself to consider. I know if any of these older women had expressed carnal interest in me I would have been horribly embarrassed and proably unable to llok them in the eye forever after.
I’m much more adventurous now.
Thank God!
He is amazingly mature for his age. We talked at length about the sheltered upbringing of his classmates. He isnt a religious type (the college is the only english one in town).
We have similar interests, and he is an excellent person. I wouldnt mess with his head… well, not the big head anyway!!
I dont think he knows how old I am either… the general consensus at work is that I am in my mid twenties.
