ahhh, kelligirl…
wistfully where were you when I was 21?
have fun and don’t spare us the details 
Hey…I’d do it! 
Go for it…he’s in his prime… your in your prime… sounds like a perfect match to me!!
BTW Kelli, from the male perspective, I am sure he would enjoy you licking him all over.
You’re probably going to Hell anyway, so you might as well have some good stories to tell the others when you get there.
Do it.
Jeffery
If you’re looking for a fling, do it. Definitely. I would suspect it wouldn’t develop into a LTR, but it doesn’t sound like you care. Have fun.
kelli kelli kelli.
I haven’t read the whole thread, but I can speak from experience.
I have liked younger guys my whole life, almost.
When I was 34, my boyfriend was 20.
Not having read any other posts, I will say go for it.
You go Girl!
And if you do wind up in hell, keep this story in mind
Thank God it’s not Friday" - Rated R
One day a guy died and found himself in hell. As he was wallowing in despair, he had his first meeting with a demon. The demon asked, “Why so glum?”
The guy responded, “What do you think? I’m in hell!”
“Hell’s not so bad,” the demon said. “We actually have a lot of fun down here. You a drinking man?”
“Sure,” the man said, “I love to drink.”
“Well you’re gonna love Mondays then. On Mondays all we do is drink. Whiskey, tequila, Guinness, wine coolers, diet Tab and Fresca. We drink till we throw up and then we drink some more!”
The guy is astounded. “Damn, that sounds great.”
“You a smoker?” the demon asked.
“You better believe it!”
“You’re gonna love Tuesdays. We get the finest cigars from all over the world and smoke our lungs out. If you get cancer, no biggie You’re already dead, remember?”
"Wow, the guy said, “that’s awesome!”
The demon continued. “I bet you like to gamble.”
“Why yes, as a matter of fact I do.”
"Wednesdays you can gamble all you want. Craps, blackjack, roulette, poker, slots, whatever. If you go bankrupt, well, you’re dead anyhow.
You into drugs?"
The guy said, “Are you kidding? I love drugs! You don’t mean . . .” “That’s right! Thursday is drug day. Help yourself to a great big bowl of crack, or smack. Smoke a doobie the size of a submarine. You can do all the drugs you want, you’re dead, who cares!”
"Wow, the guy said, starting to feel better about his situation, “I never realized Hell was such a cool place!”
The demon said, “You gay?”
“No.”
“Ooooh, you’re gonna hate Fridays.”
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Wow, what a unified outpouring of support. Come on people, this is the SDMB…isn’t SOMEONE going to tell Kelli she’s right about going to hell and offer to mail her a scarlet “A” with velcro on the back?
Well, I’m certainly not going to do it. Kelli, when I was 18 I had a torrid affair with a (single) woman who was 36, and I cherish the memory. We were good for each other; she taught me a lot about sex, love and life, and as for me…well, I’m sure you can imagine what I was good for. I was good for a couple of times a night, that’s what I was good for. grin
You two are closer in age than I was to my lover, and it certainly sounds like he’s got it bad for you.
So go get you some.
What Chef said.
When I was in school, I spent a splendid summer with a 29 yr old “older woman.” Before she dumped me for an older man. (Course it is depressing nowadays when I think how young 29 sounds!)
Kelli, you will be giving that lucky lad something he will remember all his life. Think of yourself as a philanthropist. And make sure you get as much enjoyment out of it as possible. Don’t consider any request too outrageous (as long as you promise to dish with us later.)
He may not have money or experience, but he sure has youthful energy and (ahem) endurance.
But remember, 21 year olds can be young and stupid. (I sure was.)
Rock his world, kelli. I was thinking about it the other day, since I’ve found myself attracted to women both older and younger than myself.
Is it wrong to find someone physically and sexually attractive? No, of course not. The kicker is, what are the consequences of acting on the attraction?
For you - nada. He’s legal, he’s single, he seems like a nice guy to be around. Same with you, except for the Kelli Kiddies you have crawling around the living room. So what’s the catch? Nuthin’!
You’re probably both trying not to broadcast mating signals that would jam radio receivers from here to Bogota. This is generally a good idea since you don’t want to be the subject of gossip around the workplace. (Lizard - trust me buddy, if I met a woman who reminded me of my mom, I wouldn’t be falling all over myself to play the gentleman and lavish a little attention on her. I mean, I love my mom and all, but damn!) But there are ways of going about this without arousing the suspicion of Mrs. Grundy there at the reception desk. Of course, if he’s going back to school and not coming back to the office…
I second the various sentiments here that even if it’s just a fling of short length or an ongoing “so, how you been?” kind of thing, communication is absolutely essential. Let him know where you stand on this, and make sure he knows what he wants out of it. If it blossoms into an LTR, more power to the both of you. If it doesn’t, you’ll probably still just bring a smile to his face every now and then.
I know Donna still does. grins
Good god Kelli…DON’T do it!!!
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Did I say that…or think it?
Of course do it…he wants you…you want him…wrastle bare naked in the leaves.
Although…New Brunswick sex is a little scary…how do you people do it anyways?..I betcha it involves a lobster.
Kelly
Your line about your kids not being as old as the young man of your current daydreams reminded me of myself a few years ago. I had that common rush of sexual energy so common to men hitting forty. I did the whole workout, diet, thing. Wow, it worked. But it seemed to work most on women who were considerably younger than I. (Hey, so the world I live in is populated primarily by women in their twenties.)
So, I established a policy for myself. If a woman was older than all my children, that was “old enough.” I stuck with that for a while. After a year or two, though, I decided that if she was older than some of my kids, hey, that was “old enough!” That worked too, for a while. Then I decided, “Hey, as long as she is older than her own children, what the heck!”
Put me down in the “Age don’t matter.” column.
Tris
I am 31.
Drain Bead is 22.
Any questions?
Yer pal,
Satan
I HAVE BEEN SMOKE-FREE FOR:
Four months, three weeks, six days, 14 hours, 43 minutes and 56 seconds.
5984 cigarettes not smoked, saving $748.07.
Extra life with Drain Bead: 2 weeks, 6 days, 18 hours, 40 minutes.
Speaking as someone who resembles the description given of this guy: DO IT! DO IT! DO IT! DO HIM! DO HIM! DO HIM!
He will be most appreciative, and it’ll probably help him with his shyness as well.
(P.S. I bet I blush even more than mangeorge ;))
Kelli since I’m from Saskatchewan and I’m me I’ll make a horrible pun “Gopher it”.
Keith
hmmm. When I was a 22 y.o college student (late start after stint in th military) I enjoyed a lovely seduction from a 31 y.o. woman. While it did not last forever it was certainly a good few months from my perspective. Hers, too, if I can believe my senses.
So I say, go for it.
And, “thanks Barb”.
Errr…seduction?
Sure, pursue a relationship, if you think he’s a really great guy. The age shouldn’t matter.
But “seduction” sounds so manipulative. I certainly hope you’re not serious about going about it in that kind of way.
For a genuine relationship, he sounds like a prize. Go for it.
Here are the words from “(I Want To Be) Seduced” by Gary Tigerman, Copyright 1978, by Precedent Music. The singer Leon Redbone does a nice version on his album “From Branch to Branch”
*I want to be seduced, I want a woman to take me out to dinner for two
I want to see her eyes gettin’ moody, flirtin’ with the thought of what flirtin’ can lead to
I want to act real cool, have her think about gettin’ little me in bed
Have a chat about Magna Carta, or Puerto Vallerta, or somethin’ Gandhi said
I might demur politely, falter slightly, if she starts to fondle my knee,
But I’m relatively certain I’d compromise if I know me.
I want to be seduced, I want a woman to talk to me suggestively
I want to hear her say she’ll be with me tomorrow morning, drinking hot jasmine tea
I want her to make me laugh, make a point of touching me when she talks
Leaving all the jealous guys in the joint to mumble in their beer and gawk
I know it only happens, when I’m napping, nodding in my reverie
That I ever find a woman who wouldn’t mind seducing me
I know it only happens, when I’m napping, nodding in my reverie
That I ever find a woman who wouldn’t mind seducing
Starting from the moment that we’d been introduced
That I ever find a woman who wouldn’t mind seducing me*
Doesn’t sound so awful to me.
Can I get an “Amen”, brothers and sisters?!
Kelli,
GO FOR IT KELLI!
You’ll never regret it. Not only could you be a fantastic memory for him in the years ahead, but he can be a great one for you too.
Here’s a true story for you on this subject…
About 4 years ago, I went through a bad separation and divorce. I was devastated and completely alone. I went out one evening for dinner and drinks with a friend. We were enjoying a drink and in walked this totally yummy young man. It turned out that he knew my friends daughter. My friend introduced us and it was like that instant chemistry you hear about…we hit it off. I was 37 and he was 24. We dated for several months, and still remain friends to this day.
I’ll always remember him for giving me my confidence back.
And for what a sweetheart he was…
Kelli, if you don’t go for it, you will wonder forever more about what you might have missed.