If she had been interested in you, she would have gone to the association football thing with you. People are like that.
You believe wrongly. It is an indirect expression of lack of interest in you. Or, more properly, a direct expression of same lack.
“A single occurrence doesn’t make it stalking.”
It’s everywhere around you, I can assure you. You are probably not a woman, so you probably haven’t been told a thousand times that you should smile because you don’t look pretty when you don’t smile. Only to be told you’re a bitch when you ignore the creep.
(And “to condemn” means to publicly express disapproval, should you be confusing it with “being condemned to death” or something like that.)
Get on Tinder. Even if you don’t actually use it to get dates, it’ll open your eyes to just how many attractive, available women there are out there and not to waste your time on a single fixation.
You are ratcheting up the creepiness. Seriously, give it a rest. My final word.
Jesus. This is why some women think all men are skeevy. No matter how obvious you think you’re being whilst still attempting to be polite, nothing short of, “HELL NO, I’m not interested!” ever gets through. These guys are always wondering if they may still have a chance, regardless of how infinitesimal it may be. Only something explicit (and even then, maybe not) can get them to understand.
And yes, she knows you have a crush. Duh. She also would’ve taken you up on your first offer if she was interested. She is not. Move on.
You have a zero percent chance of romantic success with this woman. ZERO. But you have a very high probability of making her uncomfortable and unhappy if you continue to pursue any sort of relationship with her, romantic or otherwise, given your professed feelings and the nature of the teacher-student relationship.
If you actually like her and care about her feelings, leave her alone.
Saw this on facebook and I feel compelled to share:
"The safe word is and should always be ‘no’ "
wait until you finish the course
No. No. No.
You’re coming across as creepy. Leave the poor woman alone.
Wtf?
To do what, make a pest out of himself? The woman was trying to be polite and give him a hint that she’s not interested without hurting his feelings. Dude needs to cut his losses and accept that she’s not going to go out with him and move on.
:smack:
Considering said tree ends up dead, not a great metaphor, dude.
Hey, sometimes you gotta rape a person 3 or 4 times before they fall in love with you.
I say take the course and be extra nice to her then when the course is over ask her out again.
If you don’t want to waste a lot of time and energy by taking the course send her a wiener pic. Chicks really like those.
I dunno, that would get pretty confusing. Better to use something like a fruit. “Mango” is a good one to use.
There is a high probability that I will not be in her class. I think this is good because I do not want to make her uncomfortable etc.
But I have a really really important question now:
She has most probably realized there were some sort of emotional involvement on my side. Should I approach her and apologize for that? Should I say something like “I am really sorry if I made you uncomfortable” ?
Or just do nothing?
Don’t do anything, just leave it alone. You don’t want to look like you’re obsessing over her. (Even though you are)
Just let it go. You don’t need to apologize for emotional attachments. Just for expressing them inappropriately and I don’t think you’ve done that (as of now).
I concur with the two previous replies; just stop. Leave her be and learn going forward. If you do that, you’ll be fine.
Fucking hell, man. There’s nothing you can do for her that’s nicer than never talking to her again.
I remember reading that some women believe they can fix some men. My teacher’s situation looks similar to me. Perhaps, she tried to fix my insecure introverted nature. What do you think?
I think you’re very confused about women and have no chance for developing a relationship with your teacher besides as a stalker.
Just move on.