My sister and I are best friends who work in the same place and do everything else together. She is only slightly over a year older than I am so we also share all of the same hometown friends. While I was out to lunch, with her, this morning she revealed to me that she had had sex with my best friend, and former college roommate, last night. It only surprised me somewhat because although they seem like they should have nothing in common, they have always gotten along very well. If I had not been so hungry before we ate, I would have noticed how nervous she was. When she broke the news, I could not stop laughing. I still think that it is hilarious and to be honest, I am actually happy for both of them. Their constant complaining about lacking companionship (i.e. steady ass) was getting on my nerves anyway. The whole thing does not bother me in the least but I know my friend is going to be a wreck until I convince him that it really is okay. If she is happy, then I am happy. If he messes up I count to four (he is my best friend) and then hunt him down like a dog. I do not, however, foresee any serious issues because out of all my close friends he treats women the best.
This whole situation has me wondering about some things. Every guy that I know makes a serious effort to avoid becoming romantically involved with the siblings of their good friends. Still, I know this has to happen because there are tons of stories about this type of forbidden romance. I was wondering, would anyone object to their best friends dating/sleeping with their siblings? Has this ever happened to anyone else? Any dopers date their best friends siblings?
Personally, I have seriously considered dating one of my friend’s sisters but ultimately I have convinced myself, and her, that it would be an awful idea. Interestingly enough, her parents and my friend all think it would be a good idea but I am fairly certain that they only feel that way because all of her ex-boyfriends are jerks.