So, my best friend has two daughters to whom I have been an uncle since their births. I love kids in general, an especially these two little girls who mean the world to me. I’m the fun uncle who takes them out to do a kinda fun stuff, I toss them in the pool, I jump on the trampoline, I participate in games and art projects. I really am the coolest uncle in the world, way cooler than you.
So, here’s my latest cool uncle thing. Both the girls (ages 8 and 6) are really into art and theatre and music and such. Now, I grew up just a short drive from New York City and I have a very special love for it. I want them to grow up with an experience and understanding of what New York City is. Well, guess what. I’m the person in their life who is most qualified to show it to them. They live in Michigan. Neither of their parents know New York.
Their mother and I have planned a trip involving me and just the 8 year old (this time). We will have two full days in New York (3 nights) to do all kinda fun stuff. Now I’ve already started to come up with various activities and there is already another thread about things to do in New York with an 8 year old. I’ve started this new thread for different reasons.
HELP!
This is the longest period of time that I’ve ever had to be responsible for a child- a real live human child who needs stuff! I’ve done lots of babysitting. I’ve done day trips to the zoo. But this is an entire weekend of just me (29 year old, single, never had any children) and an 8 year old girl. It’s also worth noting that she is quite a momma’s girl and this will be the longest time she’s ever been without one parent or the other.
So, how do I make sure she has fun the whole time? I’m not looking for specific activity suggestions- we have those in the other Thread- I mean stuff like:
Pacing?
how much can we do in one day?
how much walking can I expect her to do?
I don’t want her to get bored but I also don’t want her to get overwhelmed.
Should I keep snacks on my person throughout the day? What kind?
What do I do if she suddenly really wants her mother who is a thousand miles away?
HELP!
It’s also worth noting that we do have a very good relationship. She likes spending time with me and she is VERY excited about this trip. She has been looking forward to it ever since it was announced as a Christmas present. She is intelligent, responsible, and well-behaved. So I’m not really expecting there to be too much trouble.
Still, I am a little bit scared- this is a very “grown-up” thing to be doing. My chief concern is that I fill the day with enough fun stuff but not so much that she is overwhelmed. New York can be exhausting for an adult, I need to know where to set my expectations for an 8 year old.
Thanks!