This is starting to read like ‘Penthouse Letters’.
I’m off to join Sofa King and Rjung!
oooh.
Twice, once guy guy girl, once girl girl guy. Enjoyed it both times, though not as much as I thought I would. I sorta prefer one on one hot monkey sex, and these days only with my SO.
Glad I did it though!
Did I mention how much I love my wife? 
It’s always fun with three, and four is even better. With threesomes, personally, the FMF ones are a little tough. Lots of fun, mind you, but I’ve always felt “obligated” to make sure both girls have equal and awesome fun, but when you are with someone in the first place that can tax your limits, two can quickly turn into something resembling a LOT of work (great fun for them, coronary for me). All I can say to guys who want to be with two women is, BE IN SHAPE, or you’ll pay. Fours though are about as much fun as…well… four people can have while nekkid. Plus we each really enjoy seeing each other “in the throes” from a different perspective, and have even learned a new trick here and there that we haven’t thought of before. But one thing never fails. No matter how many people are there, and how long it goes, and what happens, it’s never been “enough”. It’s always been kind of a foreplay really for when we get alone afterwards. Kinda like an appetizer. Damn good, but it’s just not the entree 
I’m friends with a couple (now married) who were absolutely obsessed with group sex. They tried repeatedly to engage me (and did in fact talk a girlfriend of mine into it, before she and I got together). It actually got silly. Every time I got a new girlfriend, there they’d be, asking if we’d all like to do it together. But I always resisted. I just had a feeling that it would be a bad idea, along with a vague notion that I prefer sex one on one.
That said, I would try it under the right set of circumstances.
My boyfriend and I decided to seduce his cute (male) friend once. (I suppose some girls would be put off by their boyfriends manifesting bisexual tendencies, however I am not one of them.)
It was like we had thrown him a surprise birthday party. He kept going on about how wonderful we were. Went so well, next week he came back with his girlfriend .
(Is there a word for foursome other than foursome? How many counts as an orgy?)
Geez- if I didn’t have a huge crush on SexyWriter before- I sure as heck do now…
Which Boston suburb do you live in again?
Hmm.
Although all the 3somes I’ve been involved in have been unstable, they’re much preferable to the 4somes, which were just plain wierd.
(They were all guy-girl-guy-girl (gggg). The dynamics were not as fun as girl-girl-guy, which was, of course, great, or even guy-guy-girl, which was good too, because you’re both focused on the woman. GGGG is BAD in my experience because men are dicks.)
Maybe it’s just me.
To this day, I’m philosophically in favor of triads, (although I haven’t put that into practice in, cripes, seven years).
Mrs. Pinky sez I can bring home any twenny-sumpin babe I want, as long as I (& she) are wiiling to share.
Kinda takes the whole fun out of it.
Conceptually, the seduction is tittilating.
Realistically, no hard bodied surgically altered peroxide blonde, or frail pale skinned leather clad poetess, or even that unknown attractive redhead that visibly quivers every time I walk by her is gonna spice up our sex life. #1, we have a 3 yr old, & never have sex anyways, & #2 there’s no Lolita that could come anywhere near what Ms. Pinky does anyways.
Indeed, 3somes are fantastic (they were even better back in the pre-AIDS days). And if “D” showed up today (from half a world away) we’d gleefully screw our way through 29 of the 30 thousand people in town.
Other than that, I’ll just keep it in my pants.
I find it bizarre that I’ve come to adopt monogamy (or what would pass as) by this rather circuitous route.
Father Kirby used to do the same thing with us altar boys after mass every Sunday.
Aw shucks, dropzone, thank you
My first threesome that was any good was me, my ex-boyfriend Eric, and his boyfriend. In bed with two hot guys, one of whom knew exactly what I liked and the other one of whom was an Uzbek (be the first one on your block to sleep with an Uzbek!) not to mention hung like a horse.
The next one was at a play party. I brought Eric, and dropped him off to chat with some people while I cruised. I met a cute geekboi, and we wandered off to schtup. By and by Eric came looking for me. He found me in bed with this guy, and decided to join us. That was fun, but we were interrupted when the host needed the room, and then the geekboi went back to his girlfriend :eek:
Threesomes are fun!
Well, I’ve never had a traditional “threesome” but Mr. Duhnym and I experimented at a “Swing Club” back when we lived in Boston (pre ToddlerNym).
Our first time there we were pretty nervous so decided to retire to the “Watch and be Watched” room…a big room with multiple beds that was supposed to be “couples” only.
The three couples that we had been talking to at the bar (BYO) had followed us in…to “watch”. No sooner than I had Mr Duhnym’s cock in my mouth, one of the woman pushed me away and took over (another sat on his face!) while I was um, well…mauled by the remaining four. :eek:
Apparently it was some sort of initiation and decidedly pleasant.
We had nothing but good experiences there, but like Turbo Dog it was always more like foreplay for a great time with Mr. Duhnym later.
I used to be a swinger, back in the days of my ex and I being together. And I’ve had good and bad experiences with all the combinations I’ve been in. (And believe me, I’ve been in just about all of them, even by UncleBill’s definition) The bad experiences usually stemmed from jealousy on my part when the relationship I was in wasn’t going good, or feeling pressured to participate when I really wasn’t in the mood to do so. But for the most part, I’ve enjoyed my experiences as a way to add a little flavor to my relationship, but I don’t think I could go with it as a steady diet. If there’s one thing I’ve learned from my time in the swinging community is that it’s NOT for everyone, and it’s not something only one or the other partner can want. Both have to be gung-ho for it, otherwise, it causes more problems.
But, sharing experiences here, I’d have to say my best experience was with me, my ex and another girl who shares my name. And the best part was she was more interested in me than in my ex… Good little ego boost there! 
I’ve been a regular viewer/largely irregular contributor to the SDMB for about six months and I’ve come to a conclusion that I believe to be absolute gospel:
Mr. Duhnym is the luckiest SOB on the face of the Earth.
Sue, most every one of your posts causes my eyes to water and perspiration to bead along my brow. Thank you!
I’ll second that! I wish I was part of one of the other couples that mauled her! To think I used to be in her neighborhood now and then until last year and didn’t know her till now <sniffle>. Swing clubs are great, but they would have been even better if I had ever been in the same one as Sue!
Could you people show a little mercy to those of us who have no chance of these things ever happening for us?
Please?
We have, hon. Notice the lack of any real detail.
Ideally group situations should always be with your S.O. plus one or two other carefully selected individuals.
That said I’m still trying to decide which is more enjoyable another girl or another guy or another couple. These situations are all different but they all have their merits.
Of course modesty prevents me from saying absolutely which is more erotic having sex with another guy or another …
Details? I can do details.
As one of the originals to have been mentioned in the “Needs To Get Laid” thread:
I think I’ll go kill myself now.
Well…I never had a chance to have a threesome with any of my SO’s.
In fact the only threesome I had was 10 years ago, and at the time I was quite single!
One of the women had a bf, and he was abroad for a while…
The experince… unforgettable…at least for the lastr 10 years:)
As for the Mr. Duhnym envy sub-thread: Add one more to the crowd!I keep admitting being a Sue Duhnym fan, and I see no reason to stop, she is great!!!