Thank you all for the kind words. Really.
Paul, given the history with the woman, could you ask to actually SEE the report just to be sure?
Yikes! I called home last night and asked my Honey o read me the test report. It is fishy as heck.
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It has the wrong collection date. It lists March 29, it should be 30 March.
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The write-up is dated 1 April. (Although the test result was not ready until about three months after the test.
I wonder if the test was faked? How could I determine if it was? I better get the name of the lab. My new (family law) lawyer has experience with this. I will have him look at it.
Of course, having learned from my last experience, I will do this without telling the young man in question.
Down up, down, up … wow.
Oh, sorry about the swans but it made me laugh in the middle of the sad bits of the thread.
Anyway, my bullshit meter went off on the last post there … get the name of the lab, have them send you the results, get re-tested in the US if at all possible.
I have a completely unfounded suspicion it might all be part of a way to ‘lure’ you back down to Panama? I seem to recall from the earlier threads that you weren’t supposed to go back, yes?
What a rollercoaster this is. I feel for you Paul. I think the way you’re dealing with this says plenty about you, all good.
Lure me back to Panama? I live there when I am not here (or on the plane between the two).
Still, it is not beyond reason my sposal unit might have an agenda. Why she would tell me about the inconsistencies when you would think she would be happy with a negative result is beyond me.
Oh well, I will call her in two hours and get the lab name and some sort of tracking number. That will be a start.
sorry, I must have mis-remembered your thread.
but I’d see about getting those results double checked … might not be that she has an agenda, but someone who fed her the information does.
End of Game.
I just talked to my wife, she gave me all the details of the lab report, including the lab name and phone number. It would do no good to call them since they will not give the information to someone on the phone.
Anyway, the lab report is notarized. That is it. It is official. I am not the father. I just have to accept that. :smack:
The mother is hitting the roof. She had my money already spent I suppose. Now my wife has to deal with her. Gee, I have put my honey through a lot. I think a trip to Rome might be called for. She likes Rome.
OK that is it. My last post. Time to get over this.
Jesus Paul… so sorry.
If Rome is in the cards, might I suggest a couple of days in Florence? It would work wonders on me.
(even though you must not feel like smiling…)