It’s been almost 9 years since I got the C-bomb dropped on me. TL : DR - I’m doing fine now. I almost didn’t have that biopsy, because they thought it was scar tissue.
It wasn’t.
My experience was my experience, and yours will be yours. Hugs to you and yours. I actually found the most supportive comments weren’t “You’ll beat this for sure!” but instead, people saying things like “Your life is really going to suck at times over the next few months.”