No, in their movies, the guy is the teacher.
It’s worth a try. 
I first got laid when I was 24. Like someone else said, it’s not a race. You lose your virginity when you’re ready and not a moment sooner.
I wonder why I suddenly hear a chorus of male voices yelling, “But I’m ready NOW!!!”
{{{lel}}}. Sticking to your principles is leaving you sexually frustrated, but if you really believe in waiting until marriage, then may you have the strength to endure the sacrifice with joy.
I really mean that. I know it’s corny, but I do.
That’s just plain dangerous! Accidentally hit the parking brake release on an incline and start to roll backwards…well, you’ve seen Top Secret.
Hmm, I’ve always heard it as don’t get your meat where you get your bread. Wise words indeed.
I really wish I had a premium membership in The Onion, so I could link to that old article, which I vaugely remember being titled “Newlywed virgins call wedding night ‘extremely bearable’”.
Resist any urge you may have to “come clean.” Don’t tell coworkers. It sounds like she is taking it in stride so just keep it on the DL.
hides bottle of Everclear, goes off to snog lel
Or, indeed, “don’t fish off the company dock.”
Anyone here think maybe Pool got taken advantage of? Just a little? (I know - that’s polling; not the place, but…)
You could take all that advice, or subtley drop by her office and give her a bottle of Everclear and say, “Ready again whenever you want. Until then, it never happened.”
Of course, that’s just me 
Because when you’re a young male growing up, like females, there is pressure to conform. And when you don’t, well… it’s bad. You can say, “do your own thing”, or, “who cares what anybody says”, etc… It’s NOT that cut and dry. Because you can either want to conform, or choose not to conform. Either way, if you don’t end up conforming, others will let others know that you haven’t conformed. I blame society. I kicked it at 23, and I kicked it far, far away. Not under the best circumstances, but that pressure is gone. And the pressure is real, no matter how irrational I new it was. I realised how silly it was too, but at least I don’t think about it anymore. I don’t regret it either. Congrats OP. But I highly advise staying away from those in committed relationships, even though on her end, she wasn’t.
Just how drunk were you and her?
Well, it **was **Everclear. I believe one can surpass the legal Blood Alcohol Content by merely inhaling the fumes deeply.
Hey! I saw her first!
Update:
Yeah this is not good. She called and basically said she wanted to do it again while sober, and after I told her I was not comfortable with that since she is married, she said well you were comfortable with it when you were drunk and hung up on me. :eek:
I’m not sure that’s a not good thing. If she doesn’t speak to you again, except to perform job duties, maybe that’s a good thing.
And with that attitude, it seems like she’s really not so worried about the husband finding out, which is also a good thing.
Sometimes avoidance is a Good Thing.
[Monty Python]
Run away! Run away!
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All kidding aside, I’m sorry your first time is turning out so lousy. Mine kinda sucked (not in a good way) too, so I can relate.
Well pool if you were so drunk as to be impared and if she wasn’t then technicaly it could be considered date rape by her.
I probably would’ve gone for it. But good on you for sticking to your guns. Congrats on your ‘accomplishment’, so to speak, as well.