All her money here is going to her credit card bills, she doesnt pay for rent, food, car, etc. Gas is about her only expense. And personally I dont give a Flip about Mastercard etc! She can work while she is looking for another jobs she has lots of friends she could go work for in the mean time, it just wont be 10 Bucks an hour or anything. Oh and, I am not the Devil ok!
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I didnt say I encouraged her to quit, actually she has been semi-searching for a job for a few weeks. I am just supporting her in her decision, like a good friend should do. Having people tell you what to do all the time, isnt exactly the way Tuba and I learn, we are stubborn (can you tell) and the best way is to figure something out on your own for the kinestetic learners that we are.
I didnt say she was upset, I said I was, obviously that you would boot in give harsh advice to someone who you dont even know the whole story about. Asking questions would have been my first thought, to get the whole scoop before you criticize someone, and you dont even truely know her situation.
I just ended a “Hell-Hole” job, and I can say that staying in an unhealthy place like that, puts stress on your family, yourself and everything else in your life. The world is not all about making money or caring if you are in debt. Its about God, First, Family, Second, Job, Third. I am sorry if your family and your homelife comes first but it does. How pathetic would it be to keep yourself in a job that is causing problems at home, causing a break-up? Its a job people, there are more out there. Ya know big freaking deal if you cant keep a cell phone on or pay your visa bill, as long as You am happy thats all that matters.
Money is just an object, not something to get all worked up about, lets focus on the real issue being happy, the hippies had it right.