Hastur, I’ll echo gobear in advising you that these personal emails (and the ones in the other thread) do not make you or your position look particularly good in any way shape or form. This is a messy and emotional roommate dispute in the eyes of the law, and with all due respect you’re setting yourself up for a humilating spanking by a Judge if you try to submit photos of a gay wedding as some sort of justification to your position as a wronged domestic partner.
Stop these passive aggressive “I will not be ignored!” games with your ex. The scales will never balance perfectly in real life for either of you. The amount of money at issue is not worth it. Move on.
Hastur, let it go. You are deeply hurt and feel abandoned. This is normal in your situation. But nothing that you do is going to make the ex come back or hurt him as much as he has hurt you. You will not win this case in court and from the way it sounds you may very well lose your assistance if you continue. Drop the case, do not contact your ex in any way, do not broadcast your business to mutual friends and be good to yourself. That which does not kill us makes us stronger.
