So did I when I saw it on the MPSIMS page. Because we’ve had so many clueless guys laying bare their clueless soap operas here.
You couldn’t have come up with a better title (and mouseover text) to promise yet another discussion full of us screaming “You’re an idiot; your wife is steppin’ out!” and you defending her: “Ok, I confronted her and she’s dressing up to visit her aunt’s retirement home for bingo night. Now she’s mad that I don’t trust her so she flew off to Mexico for a week to give me some space while I ‘decide to appreciate her’…”
Gotta admit I’m disappointed that you’re not an idiot…
We haven’t actually established that, and in fact there are a fair of posters who would disagree with you, but for different reasons.
All you have go on is the join date and that the OP wasn’t a wall of misspelled, non-capitalized sentences sans punctuation.
it could have been actually easier to write that that cuz then its a streemofconsnsous tipe of post that makes no cents to anyeone even the op and we can read into t anythig we want drugs help either in rhe rightin ro reeding of it but on one cna get me drugs so i cant keep it up for too long i actually get a heedache riting it let alo ne reading it which i wone even try cuz ssyt or ppmt
mywife is dressing up really niceand i meen really nicer that that one girl int hat one moves you remember her don7t you she leaves on friday nights at about 9 cuz thats when she goes and she says shell be back soon but sometimes she stays out all night and one time she came home with a guys shirt on and she was missing her panties and bra but she said that she was just helping a homeless woman feel better i want to believe her cut a think its important for men to rispect thier wumman but i don7t want to be married to a slut is that what she is my friend says something fishing on going on but i don7 know why or if this is nromal behavor for maried mwown is anyone acutally reading this far and if so drop me a pm so that i can know how much you suffer like im suffering now writing the damn thing.
she friends are like its all ok and sometimes they call and say that shes with them but onetime when she said that she was with a frien the friend calledand ashed where she was and i was like isnt she with yu and she was like not shes with you but latter the friend said shes was with her the whole night but just forgot because she was in the bathroom for like too long and she forgot where where was.
I’ve got a completely different take on this post.
When I read it, my first thought was, “wow, this happened to someone else”.
During the years I lived in Taiwan, I had a friend who married a stunningly beautiful local girl. According to some other expats I knew however, she did not have the best of reputations. Before they were married, I sat him down and talked about this and he assured me that he was entering this situation with both eyes open.
Shortly after the wedding, his mother got very ill and he had to return to New York. He asked me if she could stay with me and I said “sure”.
Shortly after her arrival, she started going out (dressed to the nines) every night. Her girlfriend would stop by around 8 pm and off they would go. I never knew what time she got back because, to her credit, she never woke me up. He seldom called to ask how things were going so I figured he was busy with his mom and didn’t need to hear negative reports about his wife. He was 6000 miles away so what could he do anyway.
Weeks turned into months and I stopped worrying about it. Summer rolled around with its horridly hot and humid weather. Now “Gina” started to piss me off. She would walk from her room through the living room to the shower with out her clothes on. I don’t know if she was doing it to tempt me, but I called her out on it more than once. I finally called my friend and made up a story about my sister coming to visit for awhile and needing the room where his wife was staying. She moved out shortly after the call.
(The marriage didn’t last, but it wasn’t because of anything I told him.)
Yeah, I used to do that a lot more in the past. Bullitt is right, I’m either an ass or funny.
Beta-chan in now almost eight, if you can believe how fast time flies. She’s headed into second grade in the fall. She takes piano and loves to play with her friends and get into fights with her younger brother when he annoys her.
Didi is almost six. He’s headed into the final year of the three years of kindergarten. He loves sports cars and is really, really pissed Daddy won’t buy a Lamborghini for the family. Dream on kid.
We’re in Taiwan now and so the kids speak Chinese natively. Beta-chan has retained more of her Japanese; TokyoWife always speaks to her in that language in order for them to remember.
My wife and I still speak in Japanese as well. I talk to the kids in English. They answer back to Mommy in Chinese since that’s easier and they answer in Japanese to me since that’s their second language. We’re starting to study English more with them.
I had close to a breakdown a few years back. I got into AA, sobered up and have crawled out of the depression and anxiety attacks. We’re having so much more fun these days. Life is good.
Pough-chan would have been 10 in September this year. Beta-chan gets that she has an older brother who died but Didi still can’t quite understand. He asks if Didi plays with Grandpa up in the sky.