1) the means to love, which are keeping Christ’s teachings, are important.
Love itself is Christ’s teaching. If one Loves, one is keeping His teaching. The rest is just technique and commentary.
2) You can not bribe people into being Christians with promises of anything more than the salvation of their soul and a light yoke (i.e. you will not have to strive in order to love once the Spirit is upon you).
Appealling to a person’s self-interest is not a bribe. Do you argue that a person should follow Christian philosophy even if not understood? If such a belief system brings that person naught but misery, how can you persuade him or her to adopt it? Threats of everlasting torment?
And is not the promise of salvation of the soul a bribe? What differentiates a bribe from a promise or hope of benefit? You really need to define your terms most carefully and explicitly here to avoid complete confusion.
I have found in my life that the yoke of Love is indeed heavy at times. I have placed great demands on my character to fulfill my beliefs and my philosophy. Heavy as it is, I have found the rewards commensurate with the burdens.
3) Jesus, though he fits your description of arrogant behavior, was not in fact arrogant but righteous.
Cites? I am not an expert on the Bible. Certainly one must accept a degree of interpretation or consider acceptable genocide, incest, and other activities generally held as evil.
4) Love is not prideful.
Define “pride”.
*5) The love Christianity speaks of is not love of yourself. You are supposed to love God and love your neighbors as yourself. Not “as much as” yourself as you have implied. *
I fail to see the distinction. Again, you must be much more specific here.
6) A “positive view of yourself” is just another word for pride. Pride is unChristian.
Why should one adopt a belief system which requires one to hold a negative view of him or herself? And again you must define “pride”.
7) Man’s heart is inherently twisted and he can not be left to judge for himself what is right or even how to interpret scripture.
If I lack the ability to judge what is right, how can I determine what is right and wrong? Other people are in the same boat as I am. According to this assertion, I cannot even interpret scripture to judge right and wrong! This statment is not only without any sort of reasonable basis, it excludes any method of determining right and wrong, or good and evil.
Additionally, it contracticts a fundamental tenet of the Christian religion: The doctrine of original sin, which was aquiring the ability to determine good and evil!
Ultimately, the only guide to the conduct of one’s lives is one’s own heart, mind and spirit. One may say that the Bible, whether interpred literally or figuratively, is the only authority, yet it requires a decision of the heart to accept that authority over that of competing philosophies.
I find the underlying philosophy I infer from your statements disturbing and somewhat repellent. You are naturally entitled to practice your beliefs, but unless I am grossly misintepreting you, I could never subscribe to your views, nor would I counsel a person, however desperate for meaning or purpose, to adopt them.
I think the best we can do (again assuming my inferences are close to the mark) is explicate our respective philosophies. I doubt there is a means for us to come to any significant agreement.
I offered the OP not as a definitive interpretation on Christian philosophy, but as an exercise in constructing an argument which would at least have meaning to someone who implied he was entirely atheist. Merely shouting, “My views are TRUE!” is generally not considered a convincing or even interesting argument. Misusing the principles of logic and reason is not only unconvincing (not that I accuse you of such, but in discussions of theology and coversion such behavior has certainly occured), it marks the proponent as fraudlent and deceitful or at least mentally deficient.