Songs about reluctantly being in love.

Some obvious classics are missing here…

The Supremes, You Keep Me Hanging On
Set me free, why don’t you babe
Get out my life, why don’t you babe
'Cause you don’t really love me
You just keep me hangin’ on

The Police, Don’t Stand So Close To Me
It’s no use, he sees her
He starts to shake and cough
Just like the old man in
That book by Nabakov

Offspring, Self-Esteem
When she’s saying that she wants only me
Then I wonder why she sleeps with my friends
When she’s saying that I’m like a disease
Then I wonder how much more I can spend
Well I guess I should speak up for myself
But I really think it’s better this way
The more you suffer,
The more it shows you really care

and I hate this song, but…
Gary Puckett and the Union Gap, Young Girl
Young girl, get out of my mind
My love for you is way out of line
Better run, girl
You’re much too young, girl

The Magnetic Fields - Absolutely Cuckoo

69 Love Songs is a wonderful album, and many of the songs are in a similar bittersweet vein.

Wow, some great songs here – and more of them than I expected! Thanks, everyone. Keep 'em coming. :slight_smile:

“I Won’t Say I’m In Love” from Disney’s Hercules.

Your Latest Victim - Park
10 Minutes to Downtown - Get Up Kids
Time Consumer - Coheed and Cambria
Coke - Flickerstick
Get on the Floor - The Promise Ring

And breaking my attempt to do an all-emo list*:
Warning, (probably a cover, but the only version I’ve heard is on Black Sabbath:
“I was warned about you baby, but my feelings were a little bit too strong.”

*so Flickerstick’s not an emo band, but if all a band’s songs sounded like Coke they’d be considered emo.

“The Other Man” by Sloan. :wink:

“I Can’t Help It (If I’m Still In Love With You)” by Hank Williams.

Perusal of the Hank Williams Songbook will produce numerous examples of How Love Makes You Crazy. Or just makes you want another drink.

“That’s the Way I’ve Always Heard it Should Be” - Carly Simon

Boy, never would have wanted to be Carly’s husband. She was damn cute, great voice, lovely songs, but a really, really weird take on marriage througout a number of her songs.

Michael Penn – Cupid’s Got A Brand New Gun

It’s hiding in the corner
of every sacred place
before the ambush you won’t want to
recognize its face…

“Can’t Fight This Feeling Anymore” - (Is this Air Supply?)
“You Make Me Sick” - Pink

What about “Baby, Now That I’ve Found You” - Alison Krauss

I’m Sorry I Love You, by The Magnetic Fields.

The music’s much better than the lyrics IMO (true of most songs by this group againIMO)* but anyway, its on topic.

-FrL-

I Don’t Know How To Love Him from Jesus Christ Superstar

When You Want to Fall in Love (rewritten as Unexpected Song) from Song & Dance

muzzynyc: We do not permit quoting of full song lyrics. Best is to quote a line or two, and then provide a link to a website that has the copyright and has the full lyrics.

Please check out The Registration Agreement and also Rules for Posting at the Straight Dope Message Boards noting Post #3, and also Forum Rules: PLEASE READ noting Post #2.

Please don’t do this again. We want others to respect our copyrights, and therefore we need to be respectful of the copyrights of others.

How dare you insult REO Speedwagon this way.

"Go Away Little Girl" - The Osmond Brothers

(Boy, am I embarrassed to post that entry.)

And a real oldie:

"You Made Me Love You (I Didn’t Want to Do It)" - Al Jolson

Yeah, yeah whut-evah

I knew it wasn’t Air Supply - but I was drawing a blank

I know I misspelt his name, but that doesn’t make Al Jolson and Al Jolsen different people.

Stephin Merritt is one of the greatest lyricists to ever write pop songs.

Here’s another Magnetic Fields gem -

"cause I always say I love you
when I mean turn out the light
and I say let’s run away
when I just mean stay the night
but the words you want to hear
you will never hear from me
I’ll never say “happy anniversary”

from “I think I need a new heart.”

“Hope that I don’t fall in love with you” by Tom Waits

Damn that Evelyn Wood.

“Stop Draggin’ My Heart Around” - Tom Petty/Stevie Nicks