Does any song that refers to itself as a song or speculates on how people may react to hearing it count as breaking the fourth wall? I can think of a few examples like that.
Bumper of my SUV by Chely Wright: “So I hope that lady in her mini-van / Turns on her radio and hears this from me.”
That’s as close as I’ll get to loving you, by Aaron Tippin: “But I can sing this song to everybody / and pretend it’s not about you.”
I’m over you, by Rebecca Lynn Howard: “Maybe this song won’t make it outta my living room / But maybe someday you’ll log onto Youtube…”
Sk8er Boi, by Avril Lavigne: “I’ll be at a studio, singing the song we wrote / about a girl he used to know.”
While not explicitly stating that it is a song, Barenaked Ladies’ Pinch Me acknowledges that it has an audience with the lyrics,
If I pack the car and leave this town
Who’ll notice that I’m not around?
I could hide out under there
I just made you say “underwear”
More direct is Humor of the Situation off of the same album:
I’ve never felt so small, I’ve never been so dissed
As I shiver, dripping, while the chorus goes:
Come on now now, come on now now
Enjoy the humor of the situation
You’re So Vain “you probably think this song is about you”, by Carly Simon
The Crunge by Led Zeppelin “I can’t find the bridge, has anybody seen the bridge? Where’s that confounded bridge”
I Predict by Sparks, “I predict this song will fade out” (at which point, the singing fades out, but the track comes to an abrupt end)
That Barenaked Ladies lyric ( that ends with “I just made you say ‘underwear’”) is one of my favorite lines in music.
The Who, “Getting in Tune”: “I’m singing this note 'cause it fits in well with the chords I’m playing.”
Buffalo Springfield, “Nowadays Clancy Can’t Even Sing”: “Who should be sleeping that’s writing this song, wishing and hoping he weren’t so damn wrong?”
Jimi Hendrix, “Can You Hear Me”: “…singing this song to you?”
Matching Mole, “Signed Curtain”: “This is the first verse…and this is the chorus, or perhaps it’s a bridge…”
King Crimson, “Happy with What You Have to Be Happy With”: “And when I have some words, this is the way I’ll sing, through a distortion box, to make them menacing…”