This statement makes me think perhaps you’ve never been to Planned Parenthood. I know they were very evenhanded with some friends of mine, presenting all their options and letting them decide what to do. They weren’t there to talk them into or out of anything, just to provide information (including info on how to avoid this situation in the future) and any required services.
teemingONE, just be there for her, whatever she decides to do. I know you’re freaked out, and I applaud your decision to come freak out here rather than do it in your sister’s direction. Poor thing. She needs a hug.