TokyoPlayer I called you a condescending asshole because of the “he won’t get it” comment. That’s why I addressed the insult at you, instead of Bryan Ekers. Bryan simply said “I moved on”. Fine. Yet somehow “he won’t get it”? Bryan was just saying “I’ve been in your shoes”, you were being a dick for no reason, and I called you on it.
But now, since I hit a nerve with you, you feel the need to lash back about every one of my comments. My age, my college major, my parents, my ideas about “bad boys”, etc. I wasn’t stating them because they make me special or awesome. Each comment I made was addressing one of Argent Towers’s baseless assumptions about my character.
And no I’m not a porn snob, or any snob. A snob is someone who looks down on others based on their interests. Do you really think I have the ability to look down upon the millions of people who are content watching “bad” porn every night? Is that even possible? Am I looking down on myself because I watch “bad” porn as well?
I’m sorry, even as crappy of an idea as you all think it is, it is still a completely new concept. Romantic, intimate and affectionate porn that is geared purely towards the minds of straight men. Do you really think that is out there? Do you really think my lack of interest or research has stopped me from finding it? No, it just doesn’t exist.
Does that make me some fucking genius for thinking of it? Does that mean everyone else is stupid for not thinking of this amazing idea? No. Why did it feel enlightening to me? Because it really, truly connected with me. It’s something that I’ve been thinking about for a long time, without even knowing I was thinking it. I came in here to test the waters, to see if other people thought the same way. I didn’t come here to insult people. I sure as hell am not some troll. I don’t enjoy getting in heated arguments with others over the internet.
So why do I keep coming in here saying “You might like it if you try it.” or “You may be pleasantly surprised”? Because in life, that is often the case. A lot of things I’ve enjoyed in life, I would have never tried without some coercion from my friends/family. You all keep insisting that guys don’t want intimacy in porn, yet you base that purely on the idea of combining two seemingly unrelated elements. My idea doesn’t exist yet. I’m not saying you don’t understand my concept. I’m just saying there’s no way you can experience it until you experience it.
My older brother was like this. He’d ask me what music I liked, then I’d go into great detail about one of my favorite bands. Going on and on about their style, what makes them so interesting, and how they’re even critically acclaimed. And I’d hear, “nah, I’m not into that type of stuff”. Then a couple years later he’d come back and tell me about this new CD his girlfriend was playing at his house. About how great it was, and how he loved every track, even though it was something I already recommended to him.
In my brother’s case, I think a lot of the initial rejection of my tastes are based purely on the “older sibling” syndrome. He feels the need to teach me new things, not the other way around. And perhaps that’s the case here. Despite my age and experience, you all want to think of me as this naive young kid who just thought of this amazingly trivial, simplistic idea. “Check this out! Mixing oreos and milk is the greatest thing ever!”
And that’s why I’m getting comments like, “get a girlfriend”, “go get laid”, or “come back when you have some real experience”.
Yeah, it would be nice if I could go back in time and re-write my OP so I don’t offend anyone, or make generalizations. But that’s not possible. I think I’ve done a great job of getting my ideas across, even if sometimes they’re presented in a childish way.
Anyway, this is my last post, I promise this time. Go ahead and insult me. I may or may not read them, but I’m not going to respond anymore.