Hey people, I’m new on this forum, and I came here because I have a very stupid question!
I’m a crazy woman, and I’m very protective over a guy once I love him.
Well the point is, I’m considering moving to Florida, and there’s a chance he’ll live with me.
Well, I’m crazy in the way that every woman is a potential partner to him, so I want to move to a place with as least women as possible.
Now the stupid question is… Should I focus on the litteral women count or the procentage of women.
If I focus on the count, it might end up to be a very small town, and I don’t know how he’d feel about that. So I’m kinda confused right now.
I want to thank you guys for reading at least, and I hope you guys can give me some advice.
I’m not ignorant or stupid, but I do feel stupid by even needing to post this.
I’m aware that it’s extreme to focus on the amount of women when moving.
Also I wanted to say I don’t come up to him with my jealousy and craziness, he has his space and all this stays in my head.
I would like serious, non-judgemental answers only.
Thanks and sorry for making this longer than needed, I guess I’m not used to doing this haha!
If you want him to meet as few women as possible, go for the low population. There are parts of Florida which are so isolated that you can keep him locked in the basement and never need to worry about him encountering any unauthorized person.
You should focus on your paranoia, jealousy, and insecurities.
Treating every woman as a potential threat implies that your man can’t be trusted and that he’s not committed to the relationship. If he feels like he is trustworthy and committed, then you’ve just created a problem where one didn’t really exist.
If you at least tell him your problems, then maybe he can help you work it out. If you keep it all in your head, then there’s no real chance of resolution.
Your efforts to put the odds on your side are drastically increasing the odds that the relationship will fail. If your goal is to keep your guy in a permanent relationship, you are accomplishing the exact opposite of that with these thoughts and actions.
I don’t need advice on all that part, all I want is advice on how I can pick the best place in Florida based on my goals. I would like advice about that, not about everything around it. I understand you guys mean well in that, but it’s not what I’m here for.
If that is all you are here for, then I advise moving to Alaska. It has the lowest population density of any U.S. state.
On the other hand, you might be best moving to someplace like Miami, where the significantly higher population density means that you’ll have a much better chance of finding a new guy once you’ve ruined your relationship with this one.
If this type of messages is all I’m getting, I’m wasting my time here.
I would like advice about Florida and that’s all, if that’s not possible here, then I’m out.
Liberty County is a county located in the state of Florida. As of the 2010 census, the population was 8,365,[1] making it the least populous county in Florida. Its county seat and largest city is Bristol.[2]
You can’t ask for honest advice but limit it to the kind of answers you want to hear. We’re going to be honest and if that’s painful for you then perhaps you need to reevaluate why you’re framing your questions.
Peace!