Futile: Am I selfish for not wanting to get hurt if someone pulls in front of me or runs a red light and hits me or causes and accident? Yes, I suppose I am, since the size of my vehicle will protect me and my loved ones from bad drivers more than driving a smaller car. And yes, because there are so many pickup trucks, commercial trucks and SUVs on the road, I will be relatively safer in a larger vehicle. Now, as long as I’m not dangerous, then my driving a larger vehicle doesn’t infringe on the safety rights of others in smaller cars.
UDS: I have no problem with some sort of experience/specialized training requirement for people wanting to drive heavier/larger/specialized vehicles. We have that already for large commercial vehicles (semis, dumptrucks) and motorcycles and if there’s a high correlation between accidents/deaths in SUV-involved accidents and inexperienced drivers I think that idea would make sense.
Jehovah: I didn’t see in the OP or in the review anything about SUV “kill rate” being 6 times higher. Do you have the book itself or other sources of info on this point? The review makes mention that in side-impact collisions the hittee is 6 times more likely to die than the hitter (should we assume this only holds for the driver’s side of the hittee car?) in that particular accident between two cars. It also says the ratio between SUVs into cars is 30 to 1 in the same side-impact scenario. I don’t think this means 6 times as many people are killed by SUVs than by cars though in total.
I’m still not sure how the Suburban v. Honda death rates per million factor into this, unless that’s where you’re getting your “6 times” death rate (122/MM v. 21/MM). That’s a 6:1 ratio, but only for two vehicle models on the extremes of the size scale. They show no data at all (in the review at least) on how lives are saved by being in the larger vehicle if someone (in a car) runs into you in a side-impact accident.
Mistakes and accidents happen, but just because someone in a small car makes a mistake and pulls in front of me, why should I have some sort of ethical/moral/civic responsibility to them to also drive a little car that won’t hurt them and may not protect me from their mistake?
Here are the ways side-impact accidents are likely to happen between an SUV (hitter) and a car (hittee): the car pulls out in front of a moving SUV or the car runs a red light and into the path of the SUV. The insurance companies and the courts will place blame on the driver of the car, not the driver of the SUV (or the design of his vehicle). The other scenario would be if the SUV runs through the red light and into the side of an oncoming car, but in this case the fault would be with the driver of the SUV and not the design of the vehicle (just as in the dump truck example from above.)
IMHO, I think there are “jerks” as defined in the OP and review who buy SUVs for image or vanity, but they’re the ones who drive the BMW, Lexus, or Mercedes SUVs and not the other real SUVs (the ones we call trucks). Still though, I doubt if these “jerks” are the dangerous ones.