… as regards sexual attraction.
Something I’ve wondered about often, and was reminded of while reading this thread.
Basically, I mean finding a person of a different ethnicity to be the aesthetic ideal. For white men or women, it may be black, Latino, Asian, etc. I see a lot of this. I have one friend who, IMO, automatically links dark skin, hair and eyes with hotness, while I see the women he’s referring to and sometimes think, “Damn!” and others, “Meh.” I know that attractiveness is subjective, but still, I wonder.
Does it work in reverse? Do Asians and Middle Easterners see a pale redhead and automatically drool? Or, because in Western countries, as the majority, whites are not seen as exotic?
I wonder this because I seem to get hit on a lot more by men who are black, Middle Eastern, or Latino a lot more than white guys. And I’m about as white as they come, really pale, freckly, and blue-eyed. But me, I like pale, freckly, blue or green-eyed people generally, although I do find a lot of Middle Eastern men (and women) attractive, but I think that has something to do with their eyes, not so much their tan.
(P.S. I know that exoticness and attraction has been covered in a couple of “Why are Asian girls/people of mixed ethnicity so hot?” threads, but I’m curious to know if it works in reverse, particularly in Western countries with white majorities. I guess it might just be a “why are so many Latino and Middle Eastern men hitting on me?” sort of question. But then, is it that a large percentage of those men are hitting on me, or that very few white men hit on me so it skews my perception? Either way, why? I dunno, carry on.)