The latest on Baby Doors

Well, we’re getting closer and closer to the big day. I had my latest obstetrician appointment this past Wednesday, and everything looks good so far. In fact, last week, Airman got to feel Aaron kick for the first time.

However, I had a second ultrasound a few weeks ago. Everything’s perfect. Aarons’s got no neural tube defects, his heart looks very healthy with the usual four chambers, his brain and skull are normal (which was a concern because I was taking medication when I got pregnant that is known to cause some rather nasty defects. It looks like we missed that window.), and yes, he’s still a boy. We got the whole thing on videotape, in fact.

The surprise on the ultrasound is that he’s HUGE. At that time, he was roughly two weeks ahead of his gestational age, size-wise. Assuming he gains the average of about a half-pound a week, he’s on track to weigh around nine pounds. He’s also very long. I don’t know how long he’ll be, but he will be a big baby. The OB is going to repeat the glucose test to rule out gestational diabetes, but he doesn’t think I’ve got it because the last one was well within normal limits (113, for you medical types out there. Anything over 140 is bad.)

We also talked about banking the baby’s cord blood for my mother, who’s got MS. There is a lot of research being done in San Antonio for stem-cell transplants for that, and since my mother’s been cleared to have that, and since the cord blood would otherwise go to waste, we figured, why not? My OB has done this before, and has given the go-ahead and the information on doing this.

So, for the blood collection, the group B strep prevention, and the sheer size of this little turkey, my OB is talking induction. At my appointment for my 37th week, we’re going to plan it all out. Mostly, this is to make sure that the labor is well-controlled so problems can be dealt with as problems, and not as emergencies. At this point, I don’t know if we’re going to induce labor or if we’re going to do a scheduled c-section. Either one is okay, but I’d prefer the c-section. I know, it’s major surgery and all that, but considering what I went through last time, it’s an attractive proposition.

The dining room at my parents’ house has been converted to a nursery. Aaron’s bassinet has been set up, as has his changing table. The rest of the room looks like Hanukkah with all the boxes of stuff waiting to be used. He’s got almost everything he needs, right down to the first box of Pampers. (The only thing missing is the stroller, but that’s coming soon.)

Anyway, that’s where we are right now. Nothing else to do but wait! At least I get to start Lamaze next week. That’ll be fun.

Robin

Good luck Robin!
I’ve followed you and Airmans’s story here for a while now and I think it’s sweet as all get out. I had my son this time last year and ended up getting induced. The pitocin (sp?) was rough, so I don’t blame you for hoping for a nice painless cut. :slight_smile: Hope all goes well–start stocking up on chapstick 'cuz you’re going to wear your lips to nubs kissing that sweet little boy.

bella

Congratulations to you both, Robin. What fun!

FWIW, I had big babies and it was great. My biggest baby was over 11 pounds, and he slept through the night from day one. What a blessing that was! With a tummy that big, it’s easier to get nice and full, I think.

My smallest one was just over 8 pounds (and only because we induced him a week early); I barely knew how to hold him!

It sounds like everything is on track and you’re all set…I don’t know about you, but I felt oddly nostalgic during those last few weeks, in spite of the discomfort I was in. I just kept thinking of how my baby girl (it was much worse with that last pregnancy) and I would never have that kind of relationship (of me literally carrying her in my body) again. I drove my husband crazy, moaning about being miserable, and then breaking down in tears about the fact that pretty soon my pregnancy would be o…ohh…oOOVerrrr! Whaaaaa!

So I was a little emotional. :smiley: Betcha can relate, huh?

Best wishes to you all.

~karol

I love you, darling…take very good care of that precious baby…and take very good care of very precious you!

Oh, and Dave too, but he isn’t doing all the work:)

How are you and Dave arranging living situations?

I’m so happy to hear everything is going well, Robin. I hope you’re aware that the entire board has adopted this baby as it’s very own.

Good Luck Robin and keep us posted

Good luck! For the record, the ultrasound techs kept swearing up and down that I was going to have a 10-pound baby, so the going-home outfits I brought to the hospital were appropriately sized.

Whatsit Jr. was 8 pounds even. We brought him home in a diaper and a blanket.

I suspect you don’t have GD unless it developed bizarrely late in your pregnancy. 113 is great! Mine was 198. Oops. I wound up on insulin for the last four months of pregnancy.

Also, if you do wind up with the C-section, my advice is to get out of bed and walk around just as soon as they’ll let you. The quicker you get on your feet, the quicker you start to feel yourself again. That first shower post-birth is scary, but worth it. (I had an unplanned C-section, but have no regrets.)

I wish you the best of luck! You’re going to have that precious little guy in your arms before you know it! I am excited by proxy all over again!

Robin,

Congratulations. I think we are due the same week, yes? I haven’t begun with the shopping yet - too superstitious - but now that I’m 30 weeks the spending will begin!

It sounds like you are really prepared, especially emotionaly. I’ll be keeping an eye out for your post about the birth - and I kind of envy you that you’ll be holding your baby while I’m still huge and cranky and hot!

bodypoet I know what you mean about being sad to come to the end of my pregnancy. I’ll be very very happy to have my body back, but do feel a bit weepy thinking of it all being over - it has been such a special time.

Robin, be sure that you are taking it easy and not scrubbing the living room walls in a fit of nesting or something. :slight_smile:

Twiddle

For the moment, Dave is still in Mississippi, but he’s going home to PA next week!!! I will be moving up there sometime in September, once Aaron and I have gotten the OK from our respective docs. It’ll be nice because Dave’s family is up there, and they’re all looking forward to spoiling him rotten! :slight_smile:

I know what y’all mean about the end of pregnancy. It’s miserably hot here in San Antonio, and very humid and the air quality is lousy. So, on the one hand, I can’t wait for it to be over so I’m not carrying this extra weight around. On the other hand, I’m going to miss what is probably going to be the most intimate relationship I’m going to have with the baby. Once he’s born, he’s his own person, and he’s going to do what he’s going to do. I’m also kind of jealous because I know he and Dave are going to have a club of two (it’s that whole guy thing) that I can never join.

Ah, well. Maybe the next one’ll be a girl. :slight_smile:

Robin

I feel for you! I had one in October and the other in May. If I were ever going to do it again (which I’m not) I’d take a winter pregnancy hands down! Hang in there.

Good.

Yay Robin:)