The line between friendly get-together and something more

A good rule of thumb. If you tell your spouse, it’s friendly. If you don’t, it’s a date.

I’ve gotta say, that’s probably the best answer yet.

If the people want to sleep together, it’s a date.

I was going to say exactly this. Well not exactly. My wording was: "It’s not a date if you don’t want to bang each other. "

So if someone says When I get $, I’d like to take you for lunch, whats that? :slight_smile:

Do you want to bang each other?

I do but I was not the one asking, he was.

Is he asking you to lunch with the intent to bang you? I’ll answer that: yes. So then it is a date. Wear a low cut top.