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Obviously…
I’m glad to see that you know your rights, though. Some people don’t realize that it’s their God-given right to write as much incoherent gibberish as they want about things that bother them. Why take an extra minute or two and make it readable by someone else? That’s just wasted time you could be using to type out more gibberish!
She sounds like a decent, intelligent, respectable, devout and all-together classy woman. If she’s wearing the Hijab, it’s usually a solid sign that she takes her religion seriously, so I’d forget about a serious relationship with her unless you changed your plans about moving and were willing to convert, otherwise you have my sympathies. Women this good are worth hanging onto, and I’m sure that if you took the time to stop leering at her bod and started asking her about her culture and beliefs, you’d soon realise just what a jewel she is.
**“I am looking at moving out of state soon, I don’t have time for a long term relationship let alone one that’s as serious as I foresee this one getting.” **
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Perhaps I misread something: Where does this say you are changing jobs or companies? Personally I know of many corporations that promote employees hand-in-hand with office transfers. In my experiance, inter-state job transfers are not unheard of, even in this economy. I just can’t understand how you can be so defensive towards me while ignoring the possible danger to your career of a charge of ‘Sexual Harassment’.
Hmmm, maybe I should wear a Hijab-it sounds like it Jerk Detector.
Honestly, it seems like you want to just screw around with her, and are upset that she isn’t into that.
Don’t believe this for a second! There is indeed a perfect girl… for I’ve been going out with her for months!
Just don’t repeat that to my girlfriend…
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Badly put, the OP is still raising a legitimate question, namely: She’s perfect in almost every way (note that he mentioned intelligence and personality along with body), but that she has a religion that (maybe) conflicts mightily with his, so that puts a big damper on a possible relationship, both in little ways (sex before marriage vs. sex after) and big ways (long term reality).
I don’t mean to be (ahem) critical here, but have you gotten off of your arse and actually asked her about her deal? Get into her head, ask her about Islam, about being Muslim, this kind of thing SHOULD let you know where she’s at, and makes you look like a caring individual, rather than the cad you seem to be.
Guys I am sorry this post was so poorly written, I was really sleepy and when I tried to preveiw I got some screen telling me the boards were dead or dying. I posted without a preveiw because I didnt feel like losing the whole thing.
yes I talk to her, yes she just keeps getting better, Believe it or not I rate the intelligence and personality that goes with it far far higher than the fact that shes hot on the attractive scale. feel free to shoot me when its illeagal to have erotic thoughts about the woman described above.
of course I want in her pants, but the thing is I am moving soon, and as much as I would like to I cant spend the time to find out if shes really the one, something tells me she aint moving to SanFransisco with me to find out. in some ways we are very compatable, in others namely religeon we arent.
Hansel Summed it up nicely.
Quiteman I wasnt responding to you at all, but I am a temp at this place so I dont consider the girls working there “company Ink”
also somone asked and I am your average mostly irish pasty white guy.
I promise my next rant will be clear concise and chock full of anger not directed at beautifl women who torrment my dreams.
and ladies, trust me any guy you are seeing or are with has thoughts like these about you. if they dont they are lying about it.
oh yeah I caught her checking me out today, she wasnt even trying to hide it either!
If you’ll excuse the query, is what you’re moving for so (again ahem) critical to your life that you cannot take the requisite time to get to know the lass?
If you’ve got an inkling that this might be ‘the girl’ what else matters but that? Destined for heartbreak? Could be, but what’s life without chance.
OTOH, no chick, no matter where she’s from, or to what diety she prays, likes a broke-ass man.
So, it seems like there’s only one real answer. Date her until you leave. You think you know for sure that there’s no hittin that before you move on, so at least spend some quality time with someone you find mentally and physically attractive.
Enjoy the company of a (Seemingly) decent person, and hang on to the memories, and if something blossoms in the lurch, then so much the better, the worst that could happen, is that you’ve made a friend.
I am Moving to get closer to my son, the summers with me school year with mom thing is old. I have wanted to move for some time and now that I have my chance I am taking it. so yeah its that critical 
I talk to her at work quite a bit, the coinversations are some times strange but nothing weirder than you get talking to anyone from a country so different than america. as for asking her out. sheesh I tried to get her to do lunch before work and she was just about mortified. I dont know if its culture shock of just her (or just me) but I figured lunch is about as casual as it gets. very strange cause I know shes interested, at least the signals are really really strong. maybe they are Somali signals for get lost creep and I just dont know it.
ah well such is life