Self-control. You know the movie villains that are terribly evil but never, ever lose their tempers and always speak in measured tones? I really dig that self-control. I’m not kidding.
Healthy, mentally alert, humor, and when push comes to shove he wants to protect me. [not all the #$#! time, just once in a while, and it can take the form of saying something about my driving if it’s done right, if he cares]
I guess the healthy part is physical, but given the rest the ‘he cares’ part just melts me.
Confidence in your own sexuality, to the point where you don’t even think about it any more. Some people don’t have to try to be sexy any more then they have to try to breathe, because they’ve done such a good job of making it a part of themselves and trusting that it will come out.