Well, Stoid, if I read your post correctly, the main concern seems to be that we shouldn’t hold the Buffyverse characters to real-life standards. We should instead look to how these acts are portrayed within the context of the Buffyverse. I’m fine with that, but I still don’t think your argument holds up. If it’s one thing I’ve learned from reading interviews with Joss and Marti, is the idea that redemption must be earned. This is an idea that I think they’ve been pretty consistent with.
Within the context of the Buffyverse, Angels past actions have been portrayed as evil, but he’s spent eight decades suffering for them before he met Buffy - and he ain’t done yet. His murder of Jenny was also portrayed as an evil act, for which he spent a couple of centuries in a Hell dimension.
Buffy sending Angel to hell is not portrayed as an evil act 'cause she was trying to save the world.
Willow’s Tabula Rasa spell was portrayed as the act of an addict, for which Willow is currently in recovery. (Well, until that last scene.)
The biggest discrepency is Anya. In real world terms her acts were terrible and must be redeemed. Unfortunately, her actions have been portrayed in a humerous manner within the context of the Buffyverse, so I guess that lets her off the hook. Or not. I’ll let you decide.
Spike’s actions in THE SCENE? I dunno about you, but I don’t think they were portrayed as good acts. They certainly don’t show him acting reformed or good. I think they clearly show a step towards the evil side, making his redemtion that much harder to earn.
As pepperlandgirl has correctly stated, his actions afterwards may indicate a hope for change in Spike. We’ll have to wait and see on that. I’ve never considered it impossible that Spike be reformed. In a show that has altered the fabric of reality, that would be pretty stupid of me. But I’m not gonna grant him his redeemed status just 'cause he’s hung around. He’s still deeply in the Karma hole and THE SCENE just digs him in that much deeper.
The thing is - I’m not entirely sure that I am reading your post correctly. Your quotes seem to say that it’s a bad idea to use real-world standards to judge Buffyverse actions. But then your last quote seems to do just that. It took me a while to decide that it was just an example of how it’s a bad idea, but I’m still not sure.
It looks like you took a bunch of out-of-context quotes from a discussion I’m not privy to and presented them here to support your argument. First of all, that’s confusing. I don’t know what these people meant in the context of their discussion and they can’t respond to what we’ve said in this thread. I actually think we covered a lot of stuff they were talking about. Secondly, I think it’s poor form in a debate. I could go out and find as many quotes from other message boards and newsgroups as you’d like to support my side, bundle them together and let you try to make sense of them all. But I’d rather not.
Personally, I’d like to see Spike as the Big Bad next season. With Dru.