The third wheel

I’m toying with perspective here.

I know a lot of people who have been cheated on etc. including my mom.

And I know a lot of people who have cheated on their SO.

But what about the other person, the mistress or…whatever the noun is for a male…

Has anyone here been that mistress before?
did you regret it?

when I hear of an affair, I usually only hear about it from the male and female. It almost never includes an explanation from the mistress.

There’s this new series on…Bravo I think…“The Diary of an Affair”. The statistics show that 60% of all males cheat and 40% of all females.

I’m still trying to understand it…

It’s become so common nowadays…unless it’s always been there and more people are admitting it openly…

Hello.

This Ask the former mistress thread may be of interest to you.