A guy that I am friends with that wants to date me.
Number Two:
A guy that wants to marry me.
Number Three:
A guy that I want but he lives 3000 miles away.
What a dilema. I should be grateful but, I am not. I feel like I am in three relationships and this has been real difficult for me to handle.
I have made it clear to Number One that I only want to be his friend. I have made it clear to Number Two that I don’t want to marry him, or be in a relationship with him. I have made it clear to Number Three that I want to be with him. Why am I stressed? It might have to do with the fact that I am still single and want only the unavailable. If this is not ignorance at it’s best than I don’t know what is. Am I missing something? Should I want to be with one of the available? Should I let go of the unavailable?
See Number Three wants to move to the city where I live but, I am not sure he wants to be with me when he gets here. I also don’t want to be lead on and miss out on another opportunity.
I am frustrated, confused and not sure what the hell to do.
Well, from the point of a guy who’s basically in Number One’s position, I’d kind of just… treat him like a friend. Mention how good a friend he is occasionally, but don’t say things like “You have no chance, we’re just friends”, or you’ll just bother him.
Now, I would try to talk to Number Three and ask him what he sees in the future for you two. Just… try to have a heart to heart (not literally :eek: ) talk with him and find out how he feels.
Now I don’t know much about the situation, but if you haven’t tried that, I think you should do so.
Guy #1: a good friend that I wouldn’t have minded dating, if he ever grew the balls to ask me out. I think he has a girlfriend now
Guy #2: a friend who lives ~800 miles away. A relationship would never work, but he’s still the best kisser I’ve found. He’s got a girlfriend, too.
Guy #3: dated for a couple weeks. I thought we were hitting it off, but then he went out of town, hooked up with his “ex,” realized he still had “feelings for her,” started seeing her, and dumped me (all in that order).
Booker57, the colored smilies went to another board, hooked up with their ex (Smashie), decided they still had feelings for him, and dumped us. In that order.
Please forgive me easy e, I didn’t mean anything personal. It was just such a great quote that I couldn’t resist.
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