A few years ago, when I went off the pill, I’d get insanely horny during ovulation. I was thisclose to randomly picking up guys on the subway. I remember thinking “is this what guys have to deal with all the time?” I felt so sorry for them! The most reckless thing I did was get drunk and pick up a guy in a bar. But even inebriated, I knew to ask the regulars if he was OK and we of course took precautions. But no way in hell would I ever have looked at the guy twice if I had been sober and not so focused on my physical needs. The guy was several different kinds of wrong, but ultimately harmless.
After that I decided I didn’t like being insane, so went back on the pill and shortly thereafter met my SO. Unfortunately, the result is that my libido has dried up almost entirely.
ETA: Although I can relate to the frame of mind, I agree that the OP’s issue seems to go beyond simple horniness, and into interfering with day-to-day functioning and regard for personal safety. Some discussion with a OB/GYN or other professional would be a good idea.
After my original jocular post, and then seeing those following me, I’m starting to suspect A) she’s pulling our leg or B) I was personally whooshed and it’s the real deal.
I’m still leaning towards “A”.
But, being near Atlanta, I’d assume some of the details of her commute to work would come up, so that some could recommend some safer places than random rest stops. Atlanta is a pretty progressive town after all . . .
I wish it was a whoosh. However, I do appreciate the honest advise, and I think I agree, just needed to know if it was normal or not. What I am getting from this is that thinking about it and doing it are two different things. I guess I should have known that, but in such a state of mind, it is hard to decifer what’s ok and what’s not. Or what’s normal and what’s not.
Ah, yes. I’m so used to the older boards where anyone with a guest tag was a newbie. Didn’t notice the 2002 thingy in the corner!
So as far as the OP?
Welcome to what life as a male is like. At least from about 16-50, and when you haven’t “gotten any” lately. I feel for you, but at least there are safe ways to deal with this…any old boyfriends you can call?
You know, if you’d give us some idea of where you’re located, I’m sure we could rush one of our trained technicians across the country right to you and take care of your problem almost immediately…
I get horny when writing. Something about concentrating while activating those parts of the brain just sends me off, for some unfathomable reason. It used to be restricted to creative writing at my computer, thankfully, until a few months ago, in the middle of a written exam…
I’m a science student, by the way. Perhaps there is a connection?
jujuju sounds like a sexual addiction. There are support groups for this but they are difficult to find because of the nature of the discussions. In some, no topics are off limits, up to and including pedophilia, incest, and rape. If you go that route, pick your group carefully. Otherwise, get a webcam, send picture to watchersweb, take up a career in porn and for goodness sake buy a vibrator! And, of course, always use protection.
