Every once and a while, I get so horny I cannot concentrate on anything else. Is that normal? I was an hour late to work for this reason this morning. and it’s still not going away.
Sometimes, making myself um, you know, works, but other times it just makes it worse. It doesn’t happen that often, but when it does, I can really not control myself. If this is ok, I can tell you what I did yesterday on my way home from vacation, but I realize this is a bit riskay and don’t want to overstep the rules, hence the title. Please tell me if I am out of line with this.
The real question is, is this normal? Or am I a freak? Does this happen to everyone, or just me? Thanks in advance for your help.
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Unfortunately, it is a curse some of us have to live with. As an engineer myself, I can only say there are some support groups that can help out with our condition. I would suggest perhaps contacting local organizations in your area to help such as SAME (my preferred support group), the IEEE or others that can be found on the web. I am sorry to hear of your troubles, but I am here to listen if you need it. . .
. . . as for your actual question, um, in the past it has happened to me but as a guy, it was a little more difficult to take care of. Usually I would just press on with the day and wait until I got home. With my previous assignment however, I worked in an office with a banshee of a woman who permanently eliminated any thought, hope, or dream of a libido whatsoever. ::shudders::
The only helpful advice I can give you is that if it’s affecting work (or perhaps not), in the words of John Wayne, “You gotta do what you gotta do. . .”
Tripler
Engineer of the worst kind for this sort of question: electrical.
yeah, strictly oral. actually, it was just going to be voyeristic, but he offered, so… i’ve never seen the inside of a big rig before, it’s like a jet…
Have no advice to offer but I can tell you I’m the same way at times.
My brain has some sort of weird cross wiring. I’m a tech, I fix high tech machinery. Sometimes if a machine is giving me crap and I spend hours on the thing trying to figure out what the fuck the problem is to no avail; I start to get horny.
Crazy, I know. The second my stress levels go up; so does my hornyness!
Now, when I’m at home; no big deal; I’ll just go rub one out. But when I’m at work; rubbing one out isn’t an option!
I’m curious tho’. I only seem to have this problem when I’m single. Not so much when I’m get’n laid on a regular basis. (thankfully I got a good woman at the present! whoo-hoo! go me!) Are you single at the moment?
Yes, I am single. For me, I’ve been driving alot, and that seems to do it for me. Just lots of hours on the road seems to set me off, once it gets dark, I tend to get naked on the road.
Absolutely not the same, I was really just wanting to be watched, he performed, i didn’t injest anything myself, so the risk of infection is slim to none, but yes, I did think about that and fear it.
I didn’t have a vibrator or dildo, I did have an unopened bottle of wine though
Am I the only one who thinks there might, possibly be something clinical going on here? How much is this interfering with your life? Are you late to work often? Are you being safe at the rest stops? Is it actually possible to engage in safe sex at rest stops? I had a friend’s sister murdered at one. Please be careful. :eek:
I agree with all of this. I don’t think this is normal by any stretch of the imagination. At best you have a fetish (sounds like martymachliam if I’m reading between the lines correctly) and at worse you have a medical or psychological problem, in my lay opinion. Although some would say a fetish is a psychological problem.
Nope not normal. Having such a fetish is (probably) alright, but that’s only if it’s controllable. Yours doesn’t appear to be. Regardless of whether your fetish is to do things with and/or in the presence of strangers, someone in control of herself would, for instance, join a sex club, buy a webcam, or something. Your first priority should be your own safety, even if we’re just talking about legal and image problems. You can’t manage that just driving around looking for any random stranger. So like I said, no, you’re probably not controlling yourself.
See a psychiatrist. And buy a webcam and a mask if you need to be seen.
Well that makes a difference. You got a head where you work? Take care of your issue. Use a magazine if you need to. I don’t believe you need anything other than one hand to take care of it. Best to keep one nice and clean just in case you wan’t to eat with it. I’ve heard the Muslims do something similar. But just wiping.
