I have a habit, yes, it’s THAT habit. I tend to masturbate nightly. However, due to that I tend to do over-do it. Eventually I’ll get to the point where just one night it won’t feel, you know, good anymore. I won’t get the usual pleasurable feelings from it. My penis will almost (but not quite) feel numb. However, since I’m so habitual, I’ll consider doing it nightly whether or not there’s no pleasure. After a few days, like, a week of abstaining, I’ll continue to gain pleasure from it. However, waiting that long is the problem. Bear in mind that there never is any pain involved, only a lack of pleasure. Also, when I’m “off” as I call it, my ejaculate will usually be a smaller amount. So, my question is, what is it that goes into the whole feeling of pleasure for a man? Does he have to have a particular amount of come saved up in the plumbing down there?
If that’s the case… got any tricks for keeping one’s self from participating in that particular habit? (short of chastity devices, of course.)
I love filet mignon. It’s a real treat to eat it. But if I ate it every night, it would cease to be such a treat-- it would still be filet, but it would lose much of its sensory appeal. Buying a filet every night would also tap out my financial resources. Buying a filet every night would leave less and less money in the ol’ wallet, and I’d probably have to buy smaller and smaller filets.
But buying a filet once in a while, however, allows me to savor the juicy goodness, and it also allows me to blow a lot of dough on the biggest, fattest piece of meat in the butcher’s window.
While my situation and yours are obviously different, I believe there’s somewhat of a lesson here…somewhere. All’s I’m saying is maybe you should allow yourself to “bank a little” and thus allow yourself to savor the juicy goodness as well.
Welcome to the boards.
Happy
Seconding what was previously said, I think it’s becoming less pleasurable because you’re doing it too damn often. You can have too much of a good thing, and I do believe that this is a prime example.
It’s perfectly normal and nothing to be ashamed of. Heck, once I was so horny, I fucked the little door in my cukoo clock. Of course, for days afterwards, insead of saying “cukoo! cukoo!” the little bird went “pttt! pttt!”
I wish I could think of a different expression, but shake it up a bit! Try masterbating to that point just before you orgasm and just stop. Then after things die down abit do it again, and again, and again. Set a timer and try to keep your self in climax without orasming until the time runs out. Sometimes when you do this you might ejeculate but not orasm. I have found this is usaully great. If masterbation continues I’ve found orgasm will still happen only with out or maybe a minor ejaculation. The orasm is usualy pretty good though. Use different textures, like putting a zip lock bag over it first, maybe a sock, paper towels and wide mouth pop bottle. Try different lubes. I feel like every shower (with the exception of ones in gym) since the fourth grade has been preparing me to answer this question.
Now to hope no one I know in real life reads this post.
Peter Griffin from “Family Guy” “I’m gonna go microwave a bagel and have sex with it.”
Seriously though, if it’s a routine thing, you’ll numb yourself to it mentally. It’s much more of a mental issue than a physical one. Lessen the frequency, make it an occasion. I can’t belive I just typed that. Things should improve with that.
I prefer a real women too. However you gotta take what you can get sometimes. Netscape’s girl friend does not like going at it like horny rabbits that have been looked in cages alone for 2 years and only now released into a pen together. However Netscape does. Netscape gets so desperate Netscape refers to Netscape’s self in the third person when Netscape talk about it.
If you’ve stopped getting any pleasure from the act of masturbating, why don’t you consider doing a “Multiple Miggs” and throw the ejaculate at people? That might be fun.
Oh,nuts,so to say. When I was younger and womanless,I used to flog that cute little shooter three or four times a day.Sometimes it would practically cry out in pain and I’d have to carefully re-adjust my fingers to find places that weren’t too used.
But I never met an ejaculation I didn’t adore,even when said ejaculate consisted of one lonely drop of fluid. Some were good,some real good,and some tore huge rents in the fabric of time and space,but NONE were just blah.
So tune up your fantasies,I say,and go to it. If it puts you in the hospital,at least you’ll have nurses taking care of it.
yawn
Well it’s getting very horny here in California,so I’d better get to bed.
Did I say horny? What an odd typo;I meant LATE,of course. Silly me,and my (mmm) silly fingers.
NotFake;
Im guessing youre about 16 or 17 years old.
From the quick poll Ive taken among the person in my immediate vacinity, I would say that youve got nothing to worry about. Heck, you havent really overdone it until youve bled.
Need help abstaining? Blow up a photo of the oldest living female relative on your Moms side and tape it to the ceiling right over your bed. You may get odd looks from the rest of the family, but I guarantee it will work.
That, or just set yourself up to get “caught”. Getting caught will squelch the urge for quite some time.
When it’s not pleasurable, for me it’s a mental difficulty. You need some new fantasies or new porn or something. Are you always thinking about the same thing when you commit your solitary sins of the flesh? That’s a surefire way to get bored, and you can’t let sex with yourself get stale. Once a day isn’t enough to damage the equipment, and I can hardly imagine getting bored with it at that frequency, but I would recommend you only do it when you want to. I smoke, and it’s easy to get caught in the habit of always having a cigarette at, say, 11:00 in the morning, and to do it without even thinking about whether you want it. But if you wait until you really want that cigarette, it’s gonna be a better experience. Same goes with self-abuse; sure, you can go at it until your palms are hairy and your hand is cramped, but it’s better if you make sure that every time you touch your naughty place, it’s because you really want to and not just out of habit.
This is the BEST TMI (TIMMY - LMAO!!) thread I’ve read around here yet!!! Thank you all!
But all this talk about men touching themselves is not helping me get anything accomplished at work this morning! Mmmmmmm…I wanna go home now and touch myself too!
