To my Brother in Law: Drama will not bring this relationship back together

[WhyNot]

I am going to step out from this and just show support - reminding my sister about her appointment and calling to check now and then. I can’t solve their problems and shouldn’t attempt to, I believe.

Absolutely right. Make a bookmark for this page and read your last post daily!

[jonesj2205]

@Crowbar_of_Irony_3

@jonesj2205

There should be posters printed up with this. The answer to why does he keep calling/emailing/coming over is, so often, because she keeps answering/replying/letting him in. Feel free to reverse the genders where appropriate.

My sister has cut communication from her husband for the past three weeks. Which had lead to the current meltdown.

Some updates: We have met a counsellor and sister is under-going some therapy/counselling, mostly to settle her nerves and guilt, and to provide advice on how to proceed with BIL. I am going to step out from this and just show support - reminding my sister about her appointment and calling to check now and then. I can’t solve their problems and shouldn’t attempt to, I believe.

Good for her (three weeks ago and now) and good for you.