Just curious about all the other dopers, I tend to stay away from religious posts. Mainly because rarely is anything good going to come out of it. I do read them, but even when I want to reply, I don’t.
That, and abortion threads. I don’t have ovaries, so I don’t get an opinion on it. Much safer that way.
So, what kinds of topics do you guys/gals stay away from?
I stay away from abortion topics, except with my friends. I know my rabidly pro-life viewpoint is unpopluar, and I’m not likely to convince someone that I’m right. So I’ll keep my mouth shut and continue to vote for politicians I might otherwise not vote for, in order to try to get it outlawed.
I try to stay away from relegion (unless I really feel like whinding somepeople up) and am not to bothered many sensible threads.
Life’s to short to be serious
I’m with FairyChatMom on what topics I avoid and why. I also tend to keep away from relationship problem threads, partially because I have trouble relating to this sort of thing and partially because I really don’t feel I have anything to contribute.
I’ll happily weigh in on just about any sort of issue here on the boards. This is in stark contrast to my behavior in everyday life, where I studiously avoid getting into discussions of religion or politics. I have no problem participating in those debates here, because this board has developed a clear set of ground rules that makes it safe to toss ideas and arguments around without recrimination. Those rules don’t apply in the nonweb world, so one engages in controversial debates at one’s peril.
To an extent, I stay away from Israel-Palestine debates/rants.
Too puch polarisation, too little middle ground. If we can’t do it, then both peoples are certainly doomed to live in a state of war for a long time, I’m afraid.
After todays debacle, I may stay away from gun control issues. Can’t win. Gets frustrating.
I sometimes fear opening a thread pertaining to animals / pets…Like the one about renters being cruel to animals. It upsets me and there is nothing you can do about it.
As a Fundamentalist Agnostic I stay waaay away from religion topics (although I do peek). Because I’m personally opposed to abortion yet I know prohibition will do more harm than good, yup, avoid abortion threads like the plague. I watch very little TV these days, so that’s out. Um… “women’s biology” nuh-uh. Israel/Palestine? Why bother? Japanese Porn? Um… no, of course not, no no no.
Religion. I am so deeply in love that I come away crying.
The thing is, I’m very happy to discuss anything at all, but even here it can quickly turn nasty. Recently I tried to start some earnest discussion on the inner conflict I feel over watching serial killer flicks. I’m fascinated but worried by that fascination. The problem with that thread, as in so many, is that only one person needs to act like a fool to ruin it. Someone had a go at me, accused me of wanting to stop him watching the films he likes. I walked away in the end because I was getting angry and upset and I could hardly remember the OP.
I do enjoy threads on subjects I know nothing at all about. I got some big ol’ naive opinions to swing around.
Gun control threads. Every gun control thread that I’ve looked at has been the same group of about five people circling through an even smaller number of arguments that have all been debunked many times over.
Any thread that’s entirely devoted to the question, “Did politician A commit crime B?” Talk about a waste of time.