Hey guys,
I am noticing two character flaws of mine that are having a negative impact on my life.
Firstly I seem to go from really high to really low in terms of attitude. One day I might view my job as a first job after college that is giving me experience, money (while not a ton), and a chance to learn in the real world. The next day I might be almost physically sick with negativity thinking my job is pathetic, I make little money, and it might not be what I love to do long-term.
I just can’t seem to keep myself balanced in terms of emotions. It’s weird I might get a call from a job recruiter, or my significant other might say something great one day and as a result I am super euphoric, but the next day I just am defeated by small complications-even if it’s the same subject. I can’t seem to keep my mind focused on the good.
The second issue I have is I tend to compare myself too much to people in my life. I keep comparing my girlfriend’s job, salary, etc and feeling inferior if it’s not better or if a friend is doing something I view as more in tune with their passions, etc. I just am constantly comparing myself to others and making myself feel like crap to be honest
Anyone ever run into these two issues? I just want to keep a level head and get better at maintaining a realistic view in life rather than a roller-coaster of emotions and a constant need to compare myself to others.
Thanks guys!