I love the comments here about how self involved the couple is. Guys, it’s their wedding- a big party to celebrate them with their favorite music, their favorite food, their favorite colors, their friends, on and on.
Obviously, hosts have an obligation to look for the comfort of their guests, but the whole point of a wedding is to reflect the two people getting married and what they enjoy.
If the folks getting married are big ol’ nerds and wear Star Trek costumes in the ceremony, is that being self involved and rude to the guests? What if they do it in Klingon? Yes, because then the guests can’t understand? Alright, what if they are Catholic and do mass in Latin?
I suppose my point is, where is the line between self involved and just. . . a wedding? As I see it, the bride and groom can throw the party how they like because they are paying for it- so long as the party is comfortable and the basic needs of their guests are met, they aren’t doing anything wrong.