sexual abuse charges? I guess it depends on which surfaces he painted. I you by any chance thinking of Goldfinger?
Shayna, I guess this issue hits a little too close to home for you to be rational about it.
please tell me what other actions of his would warrant this behavior (also read my above posts for exceptions). What if he just did it once and apologized–Then she can just sledgehammer his stereo? What if he just kissed her–She can break 10 of his CDs?
To feel that she is justified is absurd.
and when you say “dockers”, you mean “every worldly possession”, right? And when you say “paint”, you mean “destroy beyond repair”, right? Just making sure you looked at the same thing I did.
Peyote,
I realize what you and others are saying…but I still think that there is no room to allow this behavior as being appropriate.
I agree, what he did was wrong, but I also believe that there is never a time where this behavior should be considered “okay”.
And as, Billdo stated, if the tables were turned and a man did this, he would be thrown in jail so quickly his head would spin right off his neck.
The guy has a restraining order against her, from what I remember from the program, but again, if a man had done this…
To me, it doesn’t matter, this is insane behavior and I would never consider it a course of action against a broken heart or even more complicated issues. She should pay, and pay for all of the things she destroyed. She entered and destroyed property, how is this any different than anyone else doing this to him, regardless of the circumstances.
You play, yes, you pay, but her actions are WAY out there my friends, I don’t care how terrible he treated her.
BTW, posting up a web site about her actions is not a big deal to me, hopefully with his media appearances and such he can gain enough cash to rebuild his apartment and buy clothes. Who knows, she may have done him a favor?
Well, he could be lying, but from the evidence at hand: Breaking a heart may make you a jerk, but willful destruction of property (and at such a scale!) makes you a criminal.
Assuming he’s telling the truth, there’s no justification for her reaction.
I agree that they’re both a couple of losers. However, the woman went just a bit too far. Hell, I’d have her arrested and charged with whatever I could get the DA to go for. Cheating is one thing, but destroying personal property, some of it possibly un-replaceable (family photos, heirlooms, etc) is a whole 'nuther ballgame. He may have deserved something for what he did, but this was NOT it.
Interestingly, this sounds like a great big scam if you ask me. Does anyone know for a fact if it’s true? It sounds like some guy is trying to sell his stupid little t-shirts and needs some kind of advertisment to get the word out. What better way than to sell a sordid story like this to the Howard Stern show. Probably just my wishful thinking that people don’t really act like this in real life.