You have to check this out!
http://www.crazy-bitch.com/
This chick gives us women a bad name.
I reserve my judgement until I’ve heard both sides.
The guy might be a supreme asshole and got what was coming to him.
When I was single I had an uncanny affinity for attracting psycho women. The present Mrs. Bluepony is a God-given exception that I get on my knees every day and thank the Lord for because of my past track record.
Once, during my single/divorced years, I woke up one morning to find the word “Asshole” painted in red nail polish on my mailbox. I was more embarrassed by the spectacle my neighbors were treated to since I owned my own house in a respectable neighborhood. The fact that I am sometimes an asshole is something I will freely admit to.
Be that as it may, I gotta agree with Wally on this one. This is only one side of the story, this clown could be a complete dick. I’m kind of leaning towards that since he decided to go public and get on Howard Stern. Yeah, like, he is the only guy who’s had his apartment/car/personal effects trashed by a jealous/spurned/dumped girl? C’mon dude, take a number and wait in line.
…send lawyers, guns, and money…
Warren ZevonLOL Wally,
I for one, would never conduct myself in such a manner. Granted the guy was cheating on his girlfriend, but this goes beyond any reason…
He was on The View today, he seemed like an average guy (course hard to tell on a few minutes of air time.)
Still, painting everything he owns is highly neurotic if you ask me.
She painted EVERYTHING, including the clothes (I guess) in his drawers…they came to the conclusion that she did $50,000 worth of damage…people suffer less in monetary damages from fires!
This is poor judgement and if a woman or a man goes to this extreme to make a point, they need serious therapy…
This guy got what he deserves? No way. Sure he was an asshole for what he did to his girl, but what a psycho bitch. Regardless of how bad the relationship has gone, you don’t screw around with others property. You don’t screw around with a person’s job. You get over it. If that had happened to me, I would not have built a website around it. I would file a police report and get that bitch sent to jail.
cooldude,
She faces a felony conviction, he is waiting on the District Attorney’s office, or something like that.
I think, if she was that wacked out, regardless of what other problems they may have had, she should have simply walked away from the relationship and get on with her life.
There is no time that this behavior is acceptable.
But what do I know? I am a woman < giggle >
Chalk up two more entries in the “People I’m Thankful Are Not In My Life” column.
I’m with Wally. I want to hear both sides. I also want to find out if she’s cute enough that it was worth it.
NYC IRL III
is on April 15th. Do you have what it takes?
This guy freely admits to having an affair, and wonders why she went psycho on him? Prick!
Granted, destruction of property is not acceptable. But her over-the-top reaction is hardly unusual.
Carpe Jugulum
Well, I’ve read the story and the guy sounds like no prize. I don’t have much sympathy for him.
His girlfried of six years finds out he’s having an affair with his secretary, the secretary admits to it (and it’s true), but he still denies it.
He finds out the girlfriend and the secretary are at his house, so he goes back to the office, takes the secretary’s spare car key and goes back to his house to drive away the secretary’s car. “I figured if they enjoyed being together so much I was going take her car and leave them both stranded together until the morning.” The two women see him drive off, run after him but can’t catch him. “At 11:00am (the next day) my friend gets a voicemail message saying that my apt is being trashed. I think it’s a ploy to get me home so I ignored message.”
This man obviously handled the situation very well. I’m amazed his girlfriend would try to damage his personal belongings. :rolleyes:
For all you who think he got what he deserved, what other actions would warrant having all your personal shit destroyed?
I’m not talking about violence in any sort of way, or anything that would result in her having physical or monetary damages, because then I might think that he got what he deserved.
While he certainly is no saint, she is a fucking loon and was way out of line.
I found out that my then-fiance was cheating on me, I didn’t trash his house, I called my dad up and asked him to send me some money to come home.
It’s much easier to walk away from a situation than it is to use revenge (in this case paint) to inflict pain.
I don’t agree that what he did was right, and no, I don’t know her side of the story, but can anyone honestly say that this is appropriate behavior in any circumstance?
I have a friend who was beaten repeatedly by a boyfriend, but she didn’t trash his stuff or shoot him (which under her circumstances could have been legally ok – self-defense) She got rid of the bafoon and got on with her life.
(damn, now this is going to turn into a debate LOL)
And what kind of yutz would advertise this turn of events?
“Look what she did to my stuff, boo-hoo
whimper whine sob cry sniffle.”
The more I think about it, the more I’m thinking, “You go, girl!”
All I have to say to this woman is THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU for doing what I wish I would have had the balls to do a time or two to cheating boyfriends myself! As far as I’m concerned she just scored one for all the women of the world who’ve had their hearts ripped to shreds by thoughtless, cruel, jerks who think that it’s ok to stick their dicks in another woman’s body even though they’re in a committed relationship.
Uhm, I’m sorry, but I think it’s WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY WORSE to screw around with someone’s LIFE! Who knows how many STDs he could have brought home, let alone the risk of AIDS. As far as I’m concerned, there is NO worse violation than the violation of someone’s physical person. His clothes be damned - THOSE can be replaced. Someone’s life CAN NOT!
I can tell you this, after the last rat bastard cheated on me, I decided that if there is ever a next one (God forbid), I’ll bring HIM up on charges of reckless endangerment.
Yeah, I’m having a bad day. So sue me.
“How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.” - Anne Frank
And the more I think about it, the more amazed (and a bit pissed off) by all the people here who’ve basically said, “yeah, ok, so he wasn’t such a nice guy cuz he cheated on her, but OH MY GAWD – SHE PAINTED HIS CLOTHES! HOW SICK IS THAT?? SHE SHOULD ROT IN JAIL FOR RUINING HIS CLOTHES!”
Gee, let’s see, violating someone’s body and potentially putting their life at risk compared to painting someone’s dockers. Yeah, I can definitely see where y’all would think the latter is worse.
NOT!
“How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.” - Anne Frank
Unfortunately, it’s mot smart… no matter how satisfying it may feel.
In the end, she may have a criminla conviction, a civil judgement and/or restitution to pay, so the end result is that the boyfriend can buy himself a bunch of new stuff.
If you’re willing to pay that high a price for the satisfaction… then, I guess, it’s worth it.
Being cheated on hurts… a hell of a lot. I know this. But surely there’s a way to exact revenge that doesn’t involve criminal liability…
- Rick
Psycho, yes she probably is.
Does he deserve part of the blame? Yes, he was fucking his secretary for goodness sake! He’s definitely not a genius.
Does his secretary deserve part of the blame too? Sure! What do you think she was doing with his girlfriend all day? Probably telling stories.
I think they’re all nuts, personally.
A woman needs four animals in her life: A mink in the closet, a Jaguar in the garage, a tiger in the bedroom, and an ass to pay for it all.
—Zsa Zsa Gabor
Point one: The guy was pretty clearly and obviously an asshole. Reading his story that came through loud and clear. I’m not sure whether he was your A-No.1 over-the-top extreme lord-high-poo-bah-of-the-assholes type asshole, or he was one of your more average garden-variety assholes, but he obviously was an asshole of some sort.
Point two: Even if he were the crowned and annointed King of the Assholes, she responded like a crazy bitch (and at least a grand-dutchess of the crazy bitches). OK, so you find that your boyfriend is sleeping with his secretary. You find this out two months after he asks you to stop living with him. (The clue-phone is ringing. Hello!!) You call him on it and he denys it. You speak to secretary and she confirms it, proving him to be not only a cheat, but a liar as well. (And if you hadn’t had at least an inkling of this in the six years that you’ve been going out, your clue-phone ringer is definately set to mute.) Well, what do you do?
If I were her, I could think of a range of options. However, though systematically destroying all of his possessions would fall quite a bit outside that range. What she did was pure, wanton destructiveness. Although it showed just a bit more creativity than pouring gasoline to his house and setting it on fire, it is just about the same thing.
Now, finding out that your long-time boyfriend is cheating on you and lying about it is hard emotionally. But responding in this way indicates that she was a true psycho. Fortunately for him, she was stable enough (on the relative scale of these things) that she merely destroyed his property, and commit violence upon his person. (A reference to the gun debates might be appropriate here, but I will refrain.)
Think about it if it were the other way around. Imagine that a boyfirend caught his girlfiend cheating and then went to her house and cut up all of her clothes, painted every surface, and destroyed each appliance. He’d be in jail with sexual abuse charges and restraining orders on him before the paint dried. And no one would give him any sympathy.
Yes, this was absolutely felony burglary and destruction of property.
(On the other hand, as Manny suggests, if she were cute enough, maybe it would be worth it. 
)
Personally, I think they are both a pair of losers.
techchick: If she was really a psychobitch, he would have waken one fine night to find himself tied to a bed and her holding a dull knife in her hand. Her reaction may have been a little extreme, but we don’t know what she put into the relationship, nor do we know how badly the weasel betrayed her. His own words convict him of being a shallow, stupid, lying weasel.
Personally, I think they are both a pair of losers.
techchick: If she was really a psychobitch, he would have awakened one fine night to find himself tied to a bed and her holding a dull knife in her hand. Her reaction may have been a little extreme, but we don’t know what she put into the relationship, nor do we know how badly the weasel betrayed her. His own words convict him of being a shallow, stupid, lying weasel.