That was the initial encounter he eluded to.
THIS… combined with a Diet Coke… is why I must now get a new keyboard.
It was a private conversation. I would NEVER post something like that on her Timeline! I’m not shocked you guys think that little of me.
What about all the other stuff people have asked? Did you ask her this out of the blue? Are the two of you close, or are you just acquaintances?
That just moves your actions from super-creepy to creepy. I don’t think defriending you had anything to do with her religious status.
Were your kids friends with her? They must be sad.
So rather than sexually harassing her her publicly, you did it privately. Because a guy whispering in your ear that he wants to fuck you is so much better than a guy yelling it on the street.
Was this sexual activity something that happened between the two of you? If so, I don’t personally find it nearly as creepy as others seem to.
The OP is 36. We’re looking at an event that occurred around 30 years ago.
Kids sometimes do things that, once they’re adults, they keep tucked away in a compartment in their head that is kept well out of sight from their everyday conscious thoughts.
etv78, you need to understand that not everyone wants to remember such things. Is she married? If not, would you have sent that message to her if the reverse were true and she was married? Those are clues as to why such messages are ill-advised at best.
I don’t see why marriage makes a difference. I really doubt any adult woman (or any well adjusted adult man) wants to be reminded of childhood sexual experimentation. Gross.
I think it would be in extremely bad taste to privately message the girl I was sleeping with last year, and say ‘hey remember when…’. And that was just a year ago.
I agree. The point I’m making is that if the OP thinks it’s inappropriate to send such a message to a married woman, then that highlights that it crosses sexual boundaries and really shouldn’t be sent to pretty much anyone.
Of course, the OP may think it’s totally fine to send such a message to a married woman. But I’m being optimistic.
Well, you know, mommy boards. Your stock pretty much tanked.
Eh, wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. But then, there’s virtually nothing about my sexual history I wouldn’t be fine with being reminded of.
Still creepy.
It’s worse if autocorrect changes ‘as’ to ‘of’.
It’s a pretty creepy story, and you’re not giving a lot of details for some reason. You’re actually encouraging people to make assumptions and putting yourself in a bad light.
The one question I’d like to get an answer to is why even bring up the subject with her? It smacks of someone looking to drag an unwilling accomplice into their own masturbation fantasy.
In McAlester, Oklahoma, you can get arrested for that.
Really? “Hi, remember me? I’m the kid who lived next door who stroked your twat when we were five?” Yeah, that’s not creepy at all. :dubious:
Well, there is a way to empirically determine this. The OP should go around to all his Facebook friends he’s played doctor with, post the same comment, and (1) make note of their religion while (2) observing how they react. If there’s not a large enough sample size (and I suspect there isn’t) to draw any meaningful conclusions, the rest of us should pitch in to aid the experiment. I’ll start by asking my brother when I see him next…