We buried my oldest friend today. Mike was only 57

He died of COVID at Christmastime. COVID and evil man slaughtering lying internet assholes and quite frankly stupidity. This is my friend Mike, I’ve been friends with him since 1977. He believed the lying scum anti-vax idiots of the loony right. This was despite his closest friends and several nurses telling him otherwise {both my sisters and my niece}. This was despite us almost losing my sister to COVID from before any vaccine was available. This was despite losing a mutual friend to COVID.

I’m really sad and really pissed at the same time. 2 weeks ago we had a nice memorial for him. Lots of people.

His family was dysfunctional and once his grandmother that raised him passed years ago, just really one cousin was in touch with him. But he was my brother. He was Uncle Mike to my two kids and our other friend’s two kids. He was at almost all of our Thanksgivings. He was at most of my friend’s Christmases. Most of my BBQs too. We gamed together forever. Went to Yankees Games together. My siblings also adopted him into our family.

So today, our friend and myself journeyed to Staten Island to bury his ashes with his grandmother’s. This was coordinated by his one cousin he had remained close to and her husband. Very good people.

Goodbye Mike.

I don’t usually chime in on these topics, but, a very nice eulogy, and my condolences
Take care of yourself.

I’ll go with this word for word. I cannot say it better. Take care of yourself, WE?

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Tightly hold those precious memories of him! Your children and your nieces and nephews were blessed to have Uncle Mike in their lives.

Damned COVID. Damned anti-vax.

~VOW

Very sad, and so frustrating. My thoughts are with you.

Thanks all.

He loved the White Russians I use to make every New Years Eve with Ice Cream in the blender. Maybe I’ll make a pitcher Memorial Day in tribute to him.

It sounds as if you gave Mike something he longed for, a real family. Sorry he’s gone. What Exit as other have said, take care of yourself.

Just saw the post, and that sounds like a wonderful idea!

I’m so sorry, W_E.

Senseless deaths of loved ones are the most hard to accept, I think. Anger is a very understandable emotion under the circumstances.

Losing such a close friend is like losing a limb. We continually hearken back to when we had that gift.

You really were the best friend Mike could have had. I hope it helps you to know how enriched his life was because of you.

What Exit?, I am so sorry.

I’m glad he had you for a friend.

I’m very sorry my friend :confused:

My condolences. Sometimes the world sucks in very personal ways!

My condolences to you and yours, @What_Exit . That just sucks.

I"m sorry that happened to your friend. It sucks man. It took much more people from my circle that were “plandemic” enthusiasts. It was particularly hard on us because we all felt like we somehow failed to get it through to them, it was like we all failed them somehow. I know its not the case but it doesn’t take the feeling away from us and their family,

So sorry for your loss, and the brutal circumstances. Such a terrible waste. :frowning:

I’m very sorry. 57 is too young. The anti-vaxxers have a lot to answer for, considering all the lives lost because of their stupidity.

May his memory be a blessing, and I hope you find ways to celebrate his life.

I am so sorry.