My friend Mike passed about an hour ago. I’m still trying to process this. I knew him for 44 year. He was a regular at our Thanksgiving and New Years. Our kids called him Uncle Mike.
We hung out, gamed, worked on wooden boats and helped put on Festivals together.
I knew him longer than any none family member. Since before High school.
That sucks and my condolences. I can’t imagine losing someone this time of year, especially such an old, close friend.
Aside from you, does he have family? Was he vaccinated? How long from the time he was diagnosed until he died? (Sorry if this is out of line, no disrespect; I have both unvaxxed and vaxxed people in my life, and I’ve never had it, but I am always interested in hearing about COVID cases directly from people that have had it or know people who have gotten it.)
So Mike lived alone, once his Grandmother passed was estranged from his family. He lived in the same apartment since 1974. My friend and I are basically going to try and get his affairs in order. Starting by locating either his very estranged mother or hopefully a will of some sort.
I’m also hoping we can find his DD-214. He was a Navy Vet. With the DD-214 he is eligible for some burial/internment help.
He didn’t have much, but without any paper, this becomes a lot more complicated.