Weird 1st dates (or 1st date offers, as the case may be)

A number of years ago (ca 1972ish) Ms Hook and had a friend who was a wealth of first date stories.

The young man picks her up. It’s late evening, maybe raining or something, anyway the visibility isn’t very good. They’re going down the street and an old woman steps out between two cars and he runs over her and kills her.
She and a guy to to the grand opening of a drive in theater. They watch the show a while and decide it sucks and leave. There was a lot of dirt work and such like that wasn’t done yet and the exit wasn’t as clearly marked as it might have been. So they end up, not on the exit road, but on the ever narrowing strip running along side of it. He manages to get over a couple of humps and make it to the actual exit. In doing so he tangles the car up in a string of lights. The last they saw of the drive in was the lights and camera going out. It was another month before it reopened.

I couldn’t agree with you (or Ethilrist) more. If you’re kinky you need to be with someone kinky. Mixed marriges don’t work :stuck_out_tongue: .

But goodness! There’s a way to go about these things. As in “Hi nice to meet you. Do you like x movie? You do! So do I! Do you like y book? Me too! Do you like z??? You do? Do you want to meet down at the z club then?”

I happen to like z but even I’d be a bit put off it he brought it up as a first date without talking about it before.

That would depend on how dominant you are. :smiley:

It seems to me there more subtles ways to figure this out. Or as the case may be, less subtle, like just asking.

… I had a first date where the girl I was out with got taken into the woods and rubber glove searched by a female officer. It took so long she missed her last bus home and had to walk… in the middle of November.

Suprisingly, I got a second date.